The role of temper in seduction?

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-02-09T17:51:19+00:00

convey immaturity?

Nailed it.

CrushHazard · 2016-02-09T19:02:46+00:00

I'll often lash out a bit and berate them for wasting my time and often leave with "It's up to you now, if you want to see me again, you can hit me up, but I'm not going to play your game."

Yeah, don't do that. That's really not about having a temper, that's more about being needy and insecure. She's a stranger. Her actions should not affect you.

Umbrifer · 2016-02-09T20:58:24+00:00

Calling them on their shit is all good. By all means use those lines. Just don't do it in a way that shows that their actions have made you angry. You need to deliver your rebuke as cool and calmly as possible or they will probably feel justified in flaking because they can backwards rationalize it as you being immature so they had no real fault in flaking. Your mindset is right. but temper directed at a women is always counter productive. If there is a role for temper in seduction it would probably be only shown when you're frustrated over things that are important to your life. Some deal fell apart, yeah swear a bit in front of her. She'll see you give a shit about your ambition. but start swearing because she went out with you even though she has a boyfriend? nah man. play it cool and give her what she's missing at home.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-02-09T18:02:33+00:00

all negativity should be suppressed actually. you should even avoid negative words etc, even in your own mind. the idea is a psychological one. they don't know you so all impressions are amplified. imo you should let them know if they just straight up did something wrong, just choose the best way to do it. I've actually turned around more than one disaster by essentially saying "I'm sorry for whatever I did, I'm not sure what it is, but you just ignoring / cold shouldering me at ... was cold / harsh"

Murfdigidy · 2016-02-09T20:40:15+00:00

There's zero role for Temper in the seduction world, in fact there is a role, but it's in the get no ass section

Electricshephard · 2016-02-10T00:16:00+00:00

Strong personality doesn't equal loosing your temper. Neither it means to follow these alpha beta bullshit stuff, btw.

And a strong personality is the sexiest thing you can offer.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2016-02-10T09:42:40+00:00

This is bad. It really is immature, it shows a lack of control over your own world. It's like being pulled about by annoyances and bothered by the little things.

"A man is as big as his problems"

If you're getting all bitter and bitchy because some girl doesn't do what you want or gives you a bit of shit. It just kind of shows weakness.

In fact the best way to show that you're not being pushed around is to just keep on doing what you're doing and not reacting. I mostly ignore any kind of bullshit from girls.

Think of it this way, you can be a freight train running along the railway of your life. Inexorable and powerful - girls can jump and board and go your way but they can't derail you.

Or you can be a leaf on the wind who react to even their mere presence, being pushed and pulled and controlled by all of your world.

supermanshazam · 2016-02-10T17:21:45+00:00

If the girl was doing the same to James Bond he would respond and not react. Save aggression for the bedroom

Title	The role of temper in seduction?
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Date	February 9, 2016 5:32 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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