Criticize my plan to become alpha

Sandkasten · 2014-07-03T18:54:40+00:00

You don't need steroids. You'll make good progress as a newbie if you train and eat right.

Start reading.
What about your social skills? I mean besides game.
I don't know if it is necessary but consider working on your voice and speech pattern, your style, body language and posture.

Archwinger · 2014-07-03T18:57:50+00:00

Be flexible about your job prospects. Move somewhere to get a good job. Don't just take the first high-paying engineering job that falls into your lap, in the same town as your parents or your university or something. The Gulf Coast is nice for ChemE people. Texas especially. The other Gulf Coast states are dives.

The first thing you should do with those first few paychecks is get a badass wardrobe. Dressing well makes a mediocre looking guy hotter. Get some advice on this from people who know what the hell they're doing, and honestly, look at other guys. Really look at them. See what attractive, successful men are wearing. Don't just ask a salesperson at the store.

Get a regular gym routine, not just rock climbing. Try some 5x5s to get started. And buy good, healthy food and learn to cook it. I'd really go with an awesome diet and an awesome workout routine before turning to steroids. You haven't tried things the normal way yet. You'll probably bulk up just fine once you're at the gym 6 days a week and eating right.

Don't just say you're going to approach women. And don't just approach women. And don't just approach on the weekends at a club or bar. Talk to 10 complete strangers every day, man or woman. Just chat with strangers. The person ahead of you in line at a coffee shop, the person behind the register in the book store, someone you pass on the street -- anyone. Just talk to strangers until you don't suck at it. 10 a day, minimum. It's stupid and awkward and embarrassing, but then you suddenly get good at it. Then, talking to girls in a bar isn't hard at all. You're just talking to them like you talk to all kinds of people.

jeezydasnowman · 2014-07-04T00:21:08+00:00

This is going to get downvoted to hell but here goes. Get a super short-term sales gig (like one summer or a half-year). Door to door or business to business it doesn't matter but NOT over the phone. Consider it a free advanced course in conversationalism and trust building. The confidence you gain will shoot your life into overdrive. Source: personal experience.

Manuel_S · 2014-07-04T20:19:25+00:00

Rock climbing will give you that grip and hands, but you need to lift or do bodyweight stuff to get some muscle showing. Not stringy muscle, I mean meat muscle.

Dark-Ulfberht · 2014-07-03T19:50:35+00:00

What I am doing currently too boost my value:

Don't do things in order to boost your value. Become great at things you give a shit about them, and your "value" will increase as a nice side effect.

Doing steroids to make up for my height and looks

Not necessary.

Learn how to squat. I'm not talking about bullshit half-squats you see in the gym. Learn how to do a real, full, parallel or deeper, fucking squat.

Get a weight you can do comfortably 10-15 times. Do it 20. Whenever you get the full set of 20 unbroken, add 10 pounds to the bar. Do this 3 times a week, never on back to back days.

After your squats, do one or two extra exercises. They need to be real exercises, not fucking leg curls or medicine ball yoga stretches. Real lifts, man. Do some bench presses, pull-ups, deadlifts, whatever. But, whatever you do, make sure to get in the squats.

Eat shit loads of chicken, tuna, and milk. Eat constantly. Drink protein shakes if you have to. Fucking eat. Don't overdo the weekend benders.

Don't cheat. Do the fucking squats. Do them three days a week. Don't bullshit yourself. If you have just gotten a date with someone you think is the woman of your dreams and it's Saturday night and you've only gotten two lifts in that week, guess what . . .do the fucking squats.

Don't start too heavy on the squats. If that means starting with 75 pounds, then start with 75 pounds. Think about it. If you start with 75 pounds and add an average of 10 pounds a week for the first 12 weeks, then you are doing a set of 20 with 195 pounds. No one who can squat 195 pounds for 20 reps with good, deep form has a frail physique. Period.

Do the above for 16 weeks. If you do this, if you really do this, I promise you that you will get results.

pupplenupple · 2014-07-03T23:49:43+00:00

Your list has left out what I call the "girly" end of male SMV because it is the stuff girls mostly focus on for their own SMV. Haircut, clothes/accessories, teeth. Putting the polish on what your work has built. Also if there are any deficits in the situation you would bring a date home to, try to fix them as much as is reasonable.

[deleted] · 2014-07-04T00:43:39+00:00

Have you ever tried nofap? Limited masturbation to 1-2x a week?

caxica · 2014-07-04T03:55:35+00:00

Dude, don't juice. Just don't. Hard work and a proper diet will get you a physique that the vast majority of females will love. The roided out look only appeals to a very small number of women, none of whom any mentally healthy guy would want to date.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-07-05T05:28:23+00:00

This is the type of to the point question and information that we need.

You will do absolutely fine but I would drop the roids. No need. Your problem is suddenly women will start to give you attention when you graduate and then you will fall in loooooove with the first one who shows you attention. Don't do it.

Read Bang and Day Bang by Roosh and definitely start approaching during the day. From your description Night Club game is not going to be your thing but a STEM PhD student with social skills and confidence should do fine.

DO NOT get caught in an endless loop studying game. The sum total of that shit is not any harder than any of your courses. Just do it. You are in college surrounded by hot girls every day. Talk to 10 of them a day. Learn a different girls name every day. It's not that hard.

robesta · 2014-07-04T02:22:37+00:00

Don't listen to all the people who are badmouthing steroids. Get your test levels checked. I suspect you probably have low test. If you do, start off with a low dose of test for TRT purposes. ~200 EW should be fine. That should help you with your physique, your confidence, and in controlling your frame. You'll also get good results in the gym.

Starting strength is a good program, but its not meant to do forever. Squatting heavy 3 times a week will wear you out. Look into a balanced bodybuilding program. You can go back to starting strength ev

Title	Criticize my plan to become alpha
Author	KoreanBoy1
Upvotes	8
Comments	18
Date	July 3, 2014 6:45 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/29rg8b/criticize_my_plan_to_become_alpha/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/criticize-my-plan-to-become-alpha.140569 https://theredarchive.com/post/140569

Comments