A learning experience for all. Had a great Tinder interaction and she suddenly unmatched me. Did I fail shit tests or was I just being a dancing monkey?

Tenmagnet · 2016-04-25T11:52:24+00:00

That conversation was really weird.

Yes, you were 110% dancing monkey.

Your "humor" is not hitting. You come across like you're just looking for attention or reactions from her. Send fewer jokes and make them funnier. Send Jokes at HER expense. For example, tell a girl she's creepy or make her prove she's not a serial killer - it's funny, but it also forces HER to engage, rather than you just being entertaining.

Jacob_961 · 2016-04-25T10:05:14+00:00

She was never into you to start with. Remove all negativity from Tinder chats. You have to be very non threatening on Tinder and keep qualifying the girl and getting her invested to the point where she does not feel wierd meeting you in person. You get her attracted to you in person. Not on Tinder.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-04-25T12:15:11+00:00

I think the banter was fine except that you probably carried it on way too long. Playful is good; just make sure you leave her wanting more. Make a joke or two and then go back to being plainspoken. Sprinkle that shit into the conversation rather than using the persona of a jester the whole time.

P.S. I don't know how long that conversation went on for, but you almost certainly should have suggested a date much sooner.

Title	A learning experience for all. Had a great Tinder interaction and she suddenly unmatched me. Did I fail shit tests or was I just being a dancing monkey?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	April 25, 2016 9:57 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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