How to make a girl feel special when she comes back to your place?

lostkarma · 2016-06-05T23:40:50+00:00

Two things:

First, try to have a nice enough place that you'd want to have people come to it. Girls or guys. A nice enough place ideally close to the action is soooo helpful. This helps 1 because of logistics. If you live close to action, girls are more willing to come back. And 2 because when they try to shit test you with "do you bring girls here" thing. Say yes, I bring a lot of people and friends over. It's a nice place.

Second. Bringing people back to your place regularly is great because it makes you a host. Have a gathering of people come over for cool events (pregames. BBQ. Bday parties. Etc). If you have enough and its fun, you will be invited to other parties. The people who host are always the most popular at other parties.

Bonus: $10 bottle of champagne goes a long way to keep in your fridge. (Almost) Every girl loves champagne and it gets her into a higher energy state.

Psychocist · 2016-06-05T23:44:19+00:00

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DaygameCoach · 2016-06-06T00:58:15+00:00

A shit test is a positive thing. It means they like you and want to see if you are real and/or can handle them. Read the sidebar help on shit tests.

spootsnoopy · 2016-06-05T23:08:25+00:00

When You get her home and she says you're too smooth or I bet you do this with all the girls etc, then just agree and amplify. If she persists with some LMR then freeze out change subject like it doesn't phase you and come back to it later. If it's clear that it's not happening then don't burn the bridge down. Tell her that your glad she doesn't want to do it on the first date, tell her you respect her for it and try again in the next date

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-06-05T21:25:27+00:00

I'll need to have this confirmed by someone who actually knows his shit but here's my take.

Every girl wants to feel like they're the only one. I would agree and amplify, say something like "yeah millions" and then smirk. This tells her she's being silly while also demonstrating that you're a man that's sought after thus demonstrating value.

2016-06-06T00:40:43+00:00

Depends on how you play it really. If you react and insinuate that you are a complete whore, then yes, they will likely have a problem. That said, playing yourself to their tempo shouldnt be too hard, seems like you're getting it down already.

Kenji_03 · 2016-06-05T23:10:18+00:00

When they ask how many women have you had here, they are asking "am I being played right now?" This doesn't mean they won't one night stand you, but this does mean they want to know if you are a keeper.

What you need to do is calm her nerves, show her you are "in it to win it" and not just "going througj the motions". However you do this, do this with confidence.

All people (women especially) are insecure. We men are expected to quell these insecurities: so do just that.

katalis · 2016-06-05T23:57:40+00:00

She is there, not other girl. She is the special one.

She is not the one who has to believe that. But you. Change your mindset and treat her like the person you want to be with in that moment. Feel it.

Also, for shit tests, answer playfully and cool. Like "Nah, the last 500 times went horrible i dont do that anymore" or "Me? Neeeeeeeever. Only after watching you doing it".

Title	How to make a girl feel special when she comes back to your place?
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Date	June 5, 2016 7:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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