I've been casually keeping up with PUA stuff for a few years now. I went from kissing 1, maybe 2 or 3 girls by age 20 to losing my virginity, going on lots of dates, having several one-night stands, dating the same girl for a few months, hooking up with girls via tinder, at bars, overseas, etc.

I feel very comfortable with my game now. I have pretty consistent success... I'm 24 now. I've had a lot of fun and i have no intention of stopping, but I'd like to be able to be in a relationship with some of the girls that I end up liking. But for some reason i've never been able to do that. I had one relationship that was great for 3 months. She moved away so that ended. I'm currently kind of dating this girl for like 2 months but she lives an hour away and i only see her every weekend or two (and I don't like her THAT much... she's cool tho).

There are several girls i've met, made out with, got their numbers, hooked up with, etc. but when I try to meet up with them again they start being wishy washy. Sometimes no response to a text for days, sometimes tenatively agreeing to meet up if they can make it, then saying they can't make it. Stuff like that. And these are with girls who i had an awesome first date with or an awesome interaction with... and hooking up with.

I feel like i need someone to guide me on how to meet up with girls for 2nd/3rd dates, how to get them interested in me more than just a casual one-time date or hookup. I tend to go for girls outside of my friend group and when you don't have that week-to-week, day to day interaction with the girls, it's hard for them to think about integrating me into their lives - i think.

Anyways, if anyone has any advice on how to go from hookup to relationship with a girl you liked... let me know.

thanks