2 year dry spell

ImChrisBrown · 2016-10-02T20:47:23+00:00

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ggGideon · 2016-10-02T19:56:49+00:00

If you're having friend zone problems you should probably read this recent post. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/55dmcl/how_to_overcome_the_nice_guy_syndrome/

honeydewgeneralstore · 2016-10-02T19:57:26+00:00

Find your hobbies, meet chicks through them, ask them out. Important: when asking, specify that you want to "take them out", not "hang out" so that they know it's a date and not just meeting up as friends. On first date, if things seem to go well, kiss her. The only way to avoid friend zone is by kissing her. If she responds well, repeat and escalate. If she isn't feeling it, move on.

Beli_Mawrr · 2016-10-03T03:54:50+00:00

Mah man. Study group. Improve your grades and you'll need everyone's numbers anyway to communicate. You'll be able to demonstrate your high value by organizing and leading (girls will notice) and you can chat up anyone in your group anyway. This is how I got a GF after a year long dry spell.

2016-10-03T15:09:22+00:00

Keep it up at the gym man

youweremyanchor · 2016-10-03T15:13:20+00:00

If you masturbate or watch porn, stop immediately.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-10-03T05:33:44+00:00

Hey Reddit, I'm approaching 2 years without sex and Starting to get desperate. Before this I dated and had casual hookups but Since the last girl I dated I have had ZERO luck with the opposite sex.

How were you meeting these girls before? What's different now?

For reference I'm 22, studying at university, decent looking, 6'1 slim(just started hitting the gym).

Age, height, build, and gym activity are irrelevant.

Though being at a university IS, because it means you have untapped social interactions available to you.

I do enjoy to go out and meet new people but between work and school I only do so about once a month.

This is probably your problem. Any chance of easing up this schedule?

Also when I do meet ladies I end up in the friend zone, I don't know what I was doing right before that changed since. Advice on how to get out and in with ladies?

We don't know what you were doing right either. Because you haven't mentioned:

How you met the girls you hooked up with before.
What you're doing now, though it appears you're a shut-in who wakes up every morning to go to school and work and back to bed again. You've made choices.
How were you introducing yourself to these ladies before? Your opener or opening style? First conversations? First dates? How were you k-closing? How were you f-closing?

Honestly, you might think you're being considerate by keeping your post so short, but you're not helping by refusing any information that would really help us get at what the issue is.

tabber87 · 2016-10-02T22:16:21+00:00

Jesus dude, you need a Tinder reset. After 2 years you just need to get laid, by anything. You shouldn't go more than a month without hitting something. If you have to resort to a fattie or a double bagger so be it. Punching below your weight is better then not being in the ring. You should be in full on ONS mode. Once you get your dick wet you can start focusing on the finer points of game but a dry spell that long is going to do so much to fuck your head up, just get out there and fuck the first thing that laughs at one of your jokes.

Title	2 year dry spell
Author	Ztrooper3
Upvotes	9
Comments	17
Date	October 2, 2016 7:18 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/55jqzx/2_year_dry_spell/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/2-year-dry-spell.1413334 https://theredarchive.com/post/1413334

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