Cole approach vs tinder

recyclablebanthas · 2016-10-09T11:14:31+00:00

Last night probably marked like, my 300th approach. Got pretty much rejected all night.

Look. While this shit is a numbers game, if you're not getting further than the approach, then something's wrong that you should fix instead or just continuing to grind it out.

You might try something different. Slow it down. Pay better attention. Stop this whole "cold approaching like a robot" thing that you're apparently doing.

I was out with some friends and they never cold approach and thought I was 'funny' for doing it. They said they were impressed with my courage, but said that just approaching random girls doesn't work.

You're not funny for doing it.

Approaching random girls does work, if you do it right.

One girl said ''I don't even know you! Leave me alone!'' after just saying 'hey, how's it going?''

This means something fixable was definitely wrong with your approach and opening delivery.

Anyway, near the end of the night, one of my friends matched on tinder with a hot girl. He's 30, She was 18 and very hot.

This is kind of a unicorn situation. Lol. Rare.

He sent a few texts back and forth, and then he said 'I've pulled. Tinder girl. I'll see you guys next week'' and then he went back to his flat and met this tinder girl, and had sex with her straight away.

Next week? This guy comes off like an unhelpful braggart. Lol. Like he's just going to run it in.

He sent me pics of her naked body about an hour after leaving us, and it felt like a dagger through my heart!!

That's kinda dick. This guy is a "friend?" In fact, all these guys..... I'd question their worth. All they're going to do is just sit back and kinda give you shit?

Then send naked pics? I'd be over it. Friends help each other get better. Not this crap.

Sex just falls in the lap of some people. How much 'game' was required to have sex with a tinder girl within a few minutes of meeting her?? I'd assume 'none', but maybe i'm underestimating him?

You're underestimating him. He texted well enough to hook that up.

And he didn't creep her out after she came over, which was a real possibility.

That can't be overlooked. Or else Tinder would be the magic cure and people wouldn't post about Tinder issues happening after they matched.

bigassbigtitties · 2016-10-09T14:36:22+00:00

well one thing - yes tinder is hands down way easier to meet people through. cold approaching will by far be your least successful tactic. im not knocking it, but im sure even real "puas" will agree cold approaching is by and large extremely fruitless

also i'd say tinder is a good way to objectively measure how attractive you come across. again, tinder is easier than CA, so if you have no luck on tinder it will only be worse with CA

you reek of desperation. you need to be fun. you need to have fun talking to PEOPLE, not just women, just for the sake of talking to them

im not tryna be mean, but im not going to lie to you either. i was where you once were and it kinda feels contradictory that to get laid you have to stop trying so damn hard to get laid

be a fisherman, not a hunter

rmbarnes · 2016-10-10T14:21:58+00:00

I used to do both Tinder and cold approach. Tinder used to work really well for me a few years ago when it was new. Now I'm older (34) I can't seem to match with hot girls often enough to make it worthwhile (other people have told me tinder isn't as good as it used to be), so cold approach it is.

leaveitaloneitsfine · 2016-10-09T11:18:08+00:00

my 300th approach

..

''I don't even know you! Leave me alone!'' after just saying 'hey, how's it going?'' Made me feel awful

..

How much 'game' was required to have sex with a tinder girl within a few minutes of meeting her??

ok. 90% of this subreddit is a bunch of fake accounts making up bullshit stories about failure so they can justify not overcoming their own virginity. i can't justify this kind of idiocy any other way. no body can make it to 300 approaches (muchless 6 months of approaches like that other fucking moron in the other thread) and still be this idiotic.

can't take it fam

Title	Cole approach vs tinder
Author	treesarered
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	October 9, 2016 11:00 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/56lqt0/cole_approach_vs_tinder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/cole-approach-vs-tinder.1413657 https://theredarchive.com/post/1413657

Comments