sleeping with work colleagues

TheXXL · 2016-10-12T09:18:49+00:00

Apart from the fact that this can become a pain in the ass, due to possible drama, and in rare cases lead to losing your job...

Would he kino her at work?

I would recommend not doing this. In my experience women feel safer when you are as discreet as possible in the workplace.

Or would he do none of that but ask her out for a drink?

This is the best approach, since it takes her need for discretion into account, and raises your chances on succeeding.

Or make up some excuse to get her number and then start flirting over text instead??

This is dangerous territory, for many reasons. For one, it could come across as you being a weak boy who is not confident enough to show your intentions in eye to eye interactions, and written words are prone to lead to misunderstandings. Also remember, what has been written, can, and will be archived, and in rare cases could be used against you.

Or maybe he waits for 'work nights out' where the whole work crew go out, and THAT'S when he'll start actually flirting/telling her he thinks she's hot/using kino etc?

This is where most hookups occur. People are more relaxed, you can isolate her way easier and she will not be under pressure since she can always go, and doesn't feel like she is trapped at work with a guy who makes unwanted advances on her. My company does company events about 4 times a year, we are a small team of under 20 people, we all know eachother personally from my bosses to our interns and treat eachother like friends at work, and i can say, our events are the times where even my bosses get mindlessly drunk, smoking weed, flirting with our female coworkers and have so much fun. There is also the unwritten rule of "what happens at company events, stays at company events".

So, the most important points are: discretion, work is work, don't flirt too obvious, keep your hands on you while at work, be professional, and if you know what you are doing and can take the possible consequences, try to get her to meet you in private. There you can run normal game on her.

leprogrammist · 2016-10-12T11:07:56+00:00

as he is your friend and you know that he can do it - why not ask him directly?

TSingleLife · 2016-10-12T14:57:25+00:00

Is clear to a guy who gets laid how he does it.

Any guy who sleeps with girls often no matter how, social circle or cold approach has one thing in common

And that is confidence and belief that you will be with that girl.

When you know what you want and have become good at it, you go for it and it happens alot because girls like sex too, a guy who is good with girls knows how to present the opportunity to it, wether is social circle or cold approach thats your choice and skill set. But presenting the opportunity confidently is how he does it in his situation.

How do you develop this confidence?

By getting the experience of having done it before.

How do you start doing it?

In his case we dont know because hes probably had good experiences since he was young and developed naturally.

In my case i worked on it.

But the end result is the same.

You start banging chicks then you get a sense of how to bang chicks anywere. Social circle or cold approach.

A cold approach artist probably gets more pussy and is overall more well rounded socially, because you have to be a gangster to really produce from cold approach, specially high quality.

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Title	sleeping with work colleagues
Author	treesarered
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	October 12, 2016 8:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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