I read an article about 'PUA's' earlier, and in it, lots of the comments were along the lines of '' 'pickup techniques' only work on girls with low self esteem''

I wanted to investigate that theory, so I done some googling, but then found the opposite of what I thought i'd find - namely, I found lots of guys complaining about how 'their game wasn't working with girls who have low self esteem'.

The advice on these forums was that you should be more of a nice guy with theses girls, and never do anything like 'negging' (which should be saved for teh hot girls) for example.

And then to finally confuse me further, I saw lots of people saying that girls with low self esteem go for 'bad boys' who treat them badly - But then, wouldn't that imply that 'negging' wold work on them?!!

Which is it???