Are You Too Boring? Here's How To Fix It. (Repost)

eckstra · 2016-10-10T04:15:55+00:00

This is really well written and useful. Do you have any recommendations for people who would like to open up and be less boring but freeze up and can't think of anything to say in most situations?

yelow13 · 2016-10-10T06:33:54+00:00

Great advice here. I've had lots of people in my life tell me what not to do, leading me to be shy and introverted.

The more I think about it, "think before you act" is terrible advice. We over-implement this saying and overthink everything.

It's better to have an unpopular opinion than no opinion

2016-10-10T09:13:11+00:00

The Déjà vu is real. I really needed to re-read it though.

Jamesshrugged · 2016-10-10T04:30:51+00:00

This was copied from /r/socialengineering

Raey42 · 2016-10-10T23:06:50+00:00

I know I am boring and I know what I do is definetly seen as boring. But I feel way better as Boris than I would as Felicity. I don't really have an interest to be this:

Felicity’s heart is racing from what she’s about to say. She’s scared but she wants to connect, so she seizes this opportunity to share with the class. Because fuck it. “I levelled up my Mage in World of Warcraft and my guild is raiding a dungeon tonight! If anyone here plays WoW come say hi."

Shouting my interests out without anyone asking seems pretty desperate. I much rather keep to myself and have someone ask me, if they really want to know about my boring hobbies. Of course that doesn't happen often, but maybe its better that way.

petezbro · 2016-10-12T00:14:52+00:00

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2016-10-13T20:51:39+00:00

Really amazing stuff.

MrAnderzon · 2016-10-10T21:47:30+00:00

Bravo good info. I'm off to fuck it.

MrAnderzon · 2016-10-10T21:48:08+00:00

So most people suppress their 3 foot tall version of themselves?

6PoolPwnage · 2016-10-10T22:00:26+00:00

I see now, thanks gentlemen.

6PoolPwnage · 2016-10-10T09:47:59+00:00

The article is okay, not gonna join in on the big circlejerk here.

I think as adults, we should behave slightly different from children. I mean, when I come across as an adult behaving like a child, they are labeled a dumbass. Plus REAL life has WAY too many obligations for me to say, "Fuck it, I want to have fun. Fuck rent, fuck children, fuck everything. Wooo!".

So yeah, it's good to not be a pussy and always stay the sidelines, but sometimes it's good too let your ego go. In relation to... relationships, your job, your family, etc. We all have slight alterations of ourselves, accept it or get the fuck out.

no2K7 · 2016-10-10T04:12:21+00:00

I wrote a big ass comment and deleted it.. this is great though, written for me haha, the boring boris master, after tonight it'll be the fuck it master haha

rangamatchstick · 2016-10-10T11:31:05+00:00

Step 1. Be informed by friend "You know what your problem with chicks is? Your fucking boring" - Bestmateof11years

Step 2. Go on Gumtree, by guitar, learn guitar, start learning German, buy motobikes.

Step 3. Profit.

4bezi · 2016-10-10T18:03:44+00:00

This one of the best things I read for a really long time.

TwentySevenNotInAge · 2016-10-10T13:09:08+00:00

This should get way more upvotes.

davide2894 · 2016-10-10T13:17:05+00:00

I can relate so much with boring Boris. Thanks for sharing the article

bugxter · 2016-10-10T11:01:51+00:00

Errr isn't this a verbatim repost?

Title	Are You Too Boring? Here's How To Fix It. (Repost)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	540
Comments	36
Date	October 10, 2016 1:31 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/56phex/are_you_too_boring_heres_how_to_fix_it_repost/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/are-you-too-boring-heres-how-to-fix-it-repost.1413692 https://theredarchive.com/post/1413692

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