Do girls ever text first?

STX415 · 2016-11-05T16:42:40+00:00

The answer is yes, there are girls who text first. But it is generally expected that guys will initiate the conversation.

A lot of guys struggle with accepting their roles as initiators. They get hung up on questions like the one you've asked, and miss many opportunities simply because they haven't adopted the initiator mindset.

I am the man. When I am interested, I will show it. When I want something, I will go after it. I have the ball(s), I will throw them in her court.

Once you accept this role in the realm of seduction and dating--and it will only benefit you if adopt this mindset for life in general-- then you can stop asking yourself should I text her? and start asking how will I initiate this conversation in an original and fun way?

This applies to Tinder as well. If you match with a girl you are interested in, you should not even have the thought of let me wait and see if she is going to message me first. She is expecting you to message first, so assume your role.

You will probably experience a handful of girls who are good initiators and will be starting conversations constantly. Enjoy this interactions where you can be "off-duty", so to speak. But don't forget your role.

Never assume that just because a girl hasn't texted you first that she is not interested. She may very well be interested. She's just expecting you to play your position.

Kurt_Kobain · 2016-11-05T15:56:32+00:00

Yes, if they are interested.

KawnN · 2016-11-05T16:00:18+00:00

Yes they definitely do, my friend got messaged first by a fucking hot chick and he went to date the day after with her. I saw her she was a solid 9. Well my mind shut off how he got messaged by a hot chick first but he is handsome so you know good for him.

monkeyman114 · 2016-11-05T23:26:09+00:00

if they're horny enough, but generally the guy texts first to spark interest.

TheXXL · 2016-11-05T15:40:59+00:00

Asking this question you have other problems than who texts first.

Title	Do girls ever text first?
Author	I_Main_TwistedFate
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	November 5, 2016 3:18 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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