Pretty simple. Two of my friends are absolute beats for getting girls. Either on the bar scene or from tinder game. I swear, they will just sit at the bar and random girls will give them attention. Must be their confidence radiating some kind of aura...idk. It's great to have friends like that and I wish I could learn from them. But the thing is they don't know what makes them good. They are naturals. So whenever I ask them about it they just give me random bullshit advices that leads nowhere. Sometime I wish I had friends on my level so we could just learn together. My confidence also gets destroyed any night we go out when I see the girls go towards them. I try to tell myself not to compare to them but I can't help it. They will also encourage me to get wasted which doesn't help me at all due to my anxiety. You can't mix booze with that.

I really like them as friends...but should I stick with these guys while going out? Or change my social circle where I could learn better.