Why do girls take nude photos of themselves and send them to guys?

TattedGuyser · 2014-09-01T12:22:21+00:00

In short, validation.

As for the good girls, they like to be sluts but just for their man. If some distance is involved it's also more likely for them to share to appease their SO .

Bottom line, every girl will share nudes for the right guy

subbice · 2014-09-01T13:43:21+00:00

From my experience: most women crave being bad girls, however they are very guarded about it.

If you offer them the right environment, being both safe and playful, they will unleash the sexual playfulness within them, the wildest sex ever imagined, dirty talk, sex in public, experimentation, pics, movies and much more.

Soultrane9 · 2014-09-01T12:51:00+00:00

women don't want to be "objectified."

Oh they want but only by the alpha. You need to forget your princess mentality. They are people just like you and me. They want the hot ones but guess what: there is a big fucking competition for a high value male. They are competing for that high value male's attention. Pickme pickme i'm a hotslut!!!!

[deleted] · 2014-09-01T13:50:23+00:00

To make their boyfriend happy, to fish for compliments, or sometimes just to say "fuck you patriarchy, I can be a slut if I want to!".

[deleted] · 2014-09-02T22:01:46+00:00

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kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-09-01T13:15:06+00:00

The funny thing about nude photos is that women probably only send them to selected "high SMV men". But even the lowliest "beta loser", "omega virgin", etc., has access to an endless supply of photos and video of naked women thanks to porn and the internet. The market has been inundated.

johnnight · 2014-09-01T21:36:28+00:00

I encountered an exception to this. She would send me sexy pics of girls from the Internet. It's the same but she would use them as proxies of herself without the risk of putting her own pics out there.

We could say she sexually objectified other women for me.

raceAround126 · 2014-09-01T22:53:08+00:00

I always thought that this was make believe. If you told me a year ago, girls would willingly send me unsolicited nude pictures either via snapchat, mms or, daringly, some even email, I would probably have laughed at you.

The ones I've had are from girls I've probably ignored the most. I don't treat people badly, but girls who I've slept with and then not wanted anything further from have generally been the biggest culprits. Basically, if you dread a girl hard enough then she probably will. But of course, she has to be completely into you. If it's only luke warm, don't expect it. I certainly haven't had them from every girl. But a few particular ones have.

Oh - and never ask for them! And never send first. Personally I've never sent full stop!

If I'm honest, I can't say I'm a fan. If a girl is attempting to tell me she's "different" or "not like them other girls", sending me nude pics isn't the way to do it. If we are in a LTR then yeah maybe, that's cool. But someone I met once? A bit weird if you ask me!

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2014-09-01T15:30:13+00:00

For the same reason young men send photos of their cars, motorcycles, or even just a big handful of hundred dollar bills: proof of social value.

mordanus · 2014-09-01T23:14:06+00:00

Two reasons.

The first is validation. This is a lot like economics. They have something of value and they trade it to you in return for something they view as valuable. They give their sexuality for your attention.

The second one is manipulation. This one is almost identical to how Nice Guys work. Nice guys will let a woman walk all over them and use them for their time/money/support/ and the Nice Guy in turn hopes for something in return. He is trying to manipulate the girl into loving/fucking him by doing good deeds and hoping she pays out

Sluts do the exact same thing. They give out sexuality in hopes of a relationship. They will wear sexy clothes, send you pics, dish out blow jobs and do kinky shit they wouldn't do normally in order to manipulate you into a relationship.

Both of these groups end up getting pissed off and bitter towards the other gender because they have been taught that this is the way to get what they want and both of them shout out the same shit. "There's no good ______ anymore."

women don't want to be "objectified."

That is a half truth. If women didn't want to be objectified they wouldn't dress in clothing that accentuated their sexual features. They not only want to be objectified, they need to be. That is what they know to be valuable to men and they need to be valuable to us.

The problem with that is that most men are not attractive to most women. It's about 10 percent of the population that is above average and the next 10% down are just ok. 80% of the guys out there women see as unfit for mating with and when one of those guys wants to be with her she gets disgusted. She wonders that's all she can attract and projects that by shaming those men that would dare think they could sample her goods that she is reserving for the top males out there.

Women want/need objectification, just not by most men. If you ever doubt that watch how they react to rock stars or how much they love songs that objectify them like baby got back.

secret_barber · 2014-09-01T13:48:12+00:00

They send them because I tell them to.

Overzealous_BlackGuy · 2014-09-01T21:09:01+00:00

Women get turned on by mens arousal, and the nice feeling of validation.

RPSavant · 2014-09-01T13:14:45+00:00

maybe their brains are not fully developed until their mid 20's so they have less control over the stupid stuff they do.

they do it for attention because they know 90% of guys will do anything for some action and like to play the cat and mouse game.

Title	Why do girls take nude photos of themselves and send them to guys?
Author	jezahell
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Date	September 1, 2014 11:59 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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