Is there such a thing as out-of-my-league? Many says no, but I guess so...

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-01-16T17:25:00+00:00

Out of my league means, I can't envision it. That is all.

TheXXL · 2017-01-16T12:59:22+00:00

I think that the girl I'm looking at is from a "higher class"

So? What does it change? Does this "higher class", btw. only a social construct, change anything that developed over millions of years in terms of biological attraction? Does attraction suddenly change, because someone thinks he is a better person just because he has more money, better genes or whatever? You are either attractive or not, that's it. Also, you are not attractive to everyone, and will never be, so it's a waste of time to think about "leagues", just look into the various instances where people from extremely different social classes were attracted to eachother, and read up on what type of guy women want, since they all have similar attraction triggers.

paddywacknack · 2017-01-16T18:37:39+00:00

No leagues, only compatibility.

t1mman · 2017-01-16T21:06:32+00:00

Appearance wise, I think it’s always a question of if you are compatible. I don’t believe in the scale (HB#) concept, since a girl you consider a 8 could be another man’s 5. The only thing that matters is if she turns you on or not. A “binary” concept rather than a 1-10 scale. But that’s as far as attraction goes.

As far as social class, you can probably “mix” to a certain degree, but there’s a good chance many of the activities, subject, matters of life will not be the same. There is some exceptions, where some people know more than their social rank usually does, but these are exceptions!

And the monetary aspect could be a big problem for long term relationships. Even more if you end up wanting to split. Unless you don’t mind having a low life scum living out of your hard earned cash because of alimony...

G_Refined · 2017-01-17T00:19:21+00:00

While I agree that there are women who want men from a certain class you shouldn't base your own standing with them strictly on your assumptions. For example, you meet a women who is a prominent lawyer, drives a new car upwards of 80k and lives in a dope condo you would assume she wants to date someone in her same "class" but in reality all she wants to do is take care of someone so now you just missed an ideal opportunity based on your own assumptions that were untrue. Now does that happen often? No, of course not, but it does happen so you should never limit yourself from the possibility.

Title	Is there such a thing as out-of-my-league? Many says no, but I guess so...
Author	Velcade6
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	January 16, 2017 12:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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