Can a 32 male date 18-23 year olds?

monsieurpommefrites · 2017-04-10T00:30:30+00:00

No. Don't bother. They're legal consenting adults and so are you, but somehow you can't. Thanks for asking.

/s

Come on man. Get over yourself. Just do it.

Also, don't rely so much on nofap. I wank 3 times a day and pull just fine.

TonyDAbsolute · 2017-04-10T02:31:18+00:00

I'm 39 and dating a 23 year old. I told her my age, she touched my arm and said "That's ok. I like older men."

DrVonDickerson · 2017-04-10T05:57:35+00:00

Nope. Ever since that fucking Mummy Curse of 1550, we just can't do it. If you want to know more about it, check out the 1999 movie with Brendan Fraser.

xarthass · 2017-04-10T02:08:07+00:00

I hear ya man. I'm about the same age and I recently went back to school. It's like the Fertile Crescent up in this bitch.

2017-04-10T05:01:05+00:00

30 year old hear. Been hoooking up up with 18- 20 for like 2 years. I love it. In my experience, just make them feel comfortable and be charming and they will be attracted to you.

And you have more money / freedom than any guy in thier age range. Super big advantage.

But yeah they are great. I am so not about settling down. And they just want to have fun. Its a perfect union.

UoAPUA · 2017-04-10T06:38:22+00:00

•Download Tinder

•Set she 18-23

•Swipe right

•Get matches

These girls purposefully allowed your age range to match with them.

phillconnors · 2017-04-10T08:04:27+00:00

It's possible, but lots of girls will dismiss you straight away.

I have a friend who is well into his 30's (35 I think) and he is always sleeping with teenagers. He most recently banged a gorgeous girl on her 16th birthday within about 20 minutes of meeting her!

I'm 30 and I got with a 19 year old a while back

It's possible, I guess. You need a bit of luck, though!

ArkAngelEV · 2017-04-10T10:37:10+00:00

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2017-04-10T06:36:41+00:00

If you're in your 30's remember you are not a typical 18 year old's first choice in a man. She will easily steer towards a guy in his early 20's instead of you. Just get used to it. That being said, its not impossible as long as you have older guy game.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-04-10T09:39:46+00:00

Yes I know guys in their 30s that date 20 year olds.

jgottlander · 2017-04-10T10:00:36+00:00

I'm 32 go to school with people that are about 10 years younger than me, Music conservatory. I've always studied with people younger than me and was really age conscious in the beginning, now I don't care. I feel like I am one of them, a little bit (lot) more mature and stable personality but age is just a number. Most of those people are a lot not mature than I was in their age.

But as I hang out with these "young" people I also date young people. You have of course the (age / 2) + 7 years formula, but age is just a number that doesn't always correlate to age. Maybe stay away from the younger ones, but I've slept with 19-20 year old women, but never intended for a relationship and made that clear.

Feel the vibe and go with it.

SigmaCronos · 2017-04-10T11:18:53+00:00

Yes.

joomla00 · 2017-04-11T18:36:18+00:00

Here's a story that may be pertinent to you. I was 33 when I got out of a LTR. Got super depressed felt like shit, like I had absolutely nothing to offer. I was never good with women. Spent about a year just focused on improving myself and my work (while extremely depressed). At 34 I went to Japan to get out of my funk. Met a few beautiful ladies. Ended up dating at 21 year old. Had SO much fun with her, by far the best lay in my life. She came to America to visit but we ultimately broke up. The second time I was in Japan, met a 24 year old korean girl and absolutely hit it off with her. Went off to different directions but we still message each other. Tried the online dating thing and met a 26 year old. Sweetheart, best connection I had with someone in my life, but that ended as well. I'm 35 now and most recently I met a 28 year old from a friend. I think she's the girl I'm going to marry.

Point of the story? Age never had anything to do with it (as long as they're legal, heh), they're just people that I connected with. And they were all super hot lol

cestlabrea · 2017-04-19T07:04:35+00:00

This situation is trickier for men. Obviously, there will be a maturity issue to deal with and this isn't a situation where you can fuck and chuck someone much younger than you because, ultimately, you are the adult here and you do know better than to do that. So if shit goes south with the interaction: it's on you.

it's not abnormal for 20-something girls to be attracted to older men. There's less life bullshit involved, older men usually have a decent career, a goal in life and don't live with five stoned roommates that can't pay their cell phone bills. As well, older men are better in bed - partially due to experience but mostly because they know that as their looks fade they can't just go into starfish mode after a night of drinking and expect a woman to be impressed simply from his body. older men are better at fucking and if they're not then it's just sad. Very, very sad.

I think what you're really asking is, "What is the youngest acceptable age of a woman for you to sleep with?" And here is the simple answer: if you're 32, then 23 for a one night stand and 25 for any kind of ongoing relationship, casual or monogamous.

If you're 32 and only women younger than 23 are hitting on you then you need to adjust where you hang out and your personality because, yeah, at 32 you should have a larger dating pool than only early 20 year old women and under no circumstance should you fuck anyone under 20. Because that's fucked right up.

Of course young girls are hot. Christ, half the models you see in advertisements are old at 16 so we're all kind of taught to find extreme youth sexy. But don't confuse ignorance for lust. Besides, settling for a confused, angry and attention seeking child is shooting fish in a barrel. Real men take pride in not being intimidated by a woman at his same intelligence, maturity and social status.

Besides, though your friends may high five you for banging a 22 year old at 32 when you're at the bar, they're turning around and discussing how fucking gross that is behind your back and you will not be invited to their family functions anymore because they have kids the same age distance from them as the woman you boasted about fucking.

Yep. I know. It's pretty gross when you think of it that way.

Just some food for thought.

tony18215 · 2017-04-10T01:47:12+00:00

Maybe you should hit on girls in there late 20s, 26 to 29...SOme of them look super young af too

Title	Can a 32 male date 18-23 year olds?
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