Thinking about leaving game

Jack__Knife · 2017-05-09T18:53:02+00:00

Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.

Woujo · 2017-05-09T13:19:06+00:00

For me I feel like after watching a bit of RSD stuff i feel a bit more pressure in interactions and more analytical afterwards

That's a problem a lot of guys have.

A lot of PUA coaching is a scam because it's guys who are naturally confident and good-looking teaching ugly dorks what they are doing. But confidence is a feeling - you either have it or not. And learning how to smile like a confident guy, or your hand gestures, or your lines, or any of that, isn't going to make you into a confident guy. It's going to make you into a robot. And like you said, a lot of guys get anxiety because it's way too much information for them to process, and now they feel like shit because they feel like they need to be getting laid all the time.

That's why, in my writings, I try to induce a fundamental change in WHO YOU ARE. Once you are confident, girls will come to you and you don't overthink every thing you say.

You can never leave "game" because you will always want to talk to girls. But if you feel like this stuff isn't helping you, don't use it. I think this is something every guy needs to figure out for themselves, and PUA guides and stuff are just reference materials - not a step by step guideline they should use.

steezmonster99 · 2017-05-09T22:24:27+00:00

I will just say a few things.

When you're trying to transform who you are, there's going to be a period of time where you're weird and unnatural.
It's up to you to decide whether game is adding or taking more from your life.
If you feel robotic, it's because you're not being yourself and present to the moment.

But probably the biggest piece of advice I can give you is to get off the damn computer. You sound like you're buried in theory. "Hey guys, I watched a 1000 videos from RSD and then I tried it and I don't feel so great at it yet and I feel weird. Also, this other video says PUA are weird. Just wanted to get feedback from Reddit now too."

C H I L L O U T

zeddditor · 2017-05-10T07:05:27+00:00

Unpopular opinion: I have the feeling that most of the RSD material is not really designed to really help you pick up women. Yes, they throw some tips at you, but ultimately what you have is a bunch of attractive guys improvising about various topics. This is also why so much of their material is ridiculously inconsistent. Sometimes they basically tell you "be a caveman", sometimes they get all buddhist monk and tell you to "leave your self behind".

No one of us is going to learn seduction from videos, but from trying and failing seduction.

saxoriko · 2017-05-09T16:37:08+00:00

"Game is not something you do, Game is something you are."
You may feel like a robot in the beginning, but after a while, it will become something part of your personality. With enough time, game will become something you are.

cusomak · 2017-05-10T06:59:14+00:00

This is great I'm getting a lot of perspectives which is what I want. Currently I'm in a position where I get 1 or 2 make outs(which probably isn't that good) when ever I go out but I don't feel any connection with the person, like it feels fake I'm not if thats because of "game" but I don't want to get better

Title	Thinking about leaving game
Author	cusomak
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	May 9, 2017 1:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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