What makes you check a guy out

DW_Eclipse · 2017-05-15T16:26:53+00:00

This sub is totally not all guys. :p unless I've grown a penis I'm not aware of. Women are into seduction too.

A man's physical presence is the first thing I notice. How he carries himself, his style and general air/attitude. After that, a smile is the second thing. A man with a nice smile is very attractive, white, straight teeth, maybe some little dimples, or whether that smile genuinely reaches his eyes or not. Then I try to check out his ass without being noticed, lol.

Freeecheeese · 2017-05-15T20:01:30+00:00

I am a woman, and I personally am attracted to taller, thicker guys, and never blonde (I am blond...some sort of natural defence against inbreeding? Who knows.) I have girl friends who are attracted to big noses, skinny guys, nice hands, any number of different things. Some things are universally appealing tho: Clean teeth/nice breath/a smile showing them off. Good posture, which indicates confidence and strength. People who are comfortable in their own skins. I'm not comfortable in my skin, and it shows in my posture and body confidence. Your clothes give an indication of what you're into, and that can be appealing too (a band t-shirt of a band she likes, etc).

2017-05-15T14:33:20+00:00

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CauseImBatman · 2017-05-15T18:21:44+00:00

From what I've experienced tallness gets you instant points. Girls always like tall guys. Always.

2017-05-15T14:50:11+00:00

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throwawry42 · 2017-05-15T17:55:38+00:00

You should be posting this to /r/askwomen. This subreddit is 98% guys, 1.5% angry women who think that men who discuss seduction are scum looking for /srs content, and only 0.4% curious women.

Though you will see if you post to /r/askwomen, or search to see the hundreds of times this question has been asked before. You are not very likely to get straight or useful answer. Sure you will get some women saying arms, some saying eyes, some will give you something that seems random, most though will give you something that almost seems like they are avoiding the question. There is hardly any unified opinions.

Just a piece of advice though, because girls don't usually approach guys, getting a girl to check you out is not necessarily the best way to go.

You also actually have a better chance of being approached being in the top 20% than in the top 1%, because the top 1% is way to intimidating.

Not only that,but often women will find a guy crazy attractive physically, but not in a way she will actually want to do anything with him over. They often get too worried their friends will judge them, or they convince themselves he must be a meat head or an asshole.

Women are much more socially inclined than men too. They are much more likely to form their opinions, including on attractiveness based on the crowd around them. With each girl who "checks you out" you are much more likely to be checked out by another.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't make yourself look good. By all means get yourself fit, learn everything you can about fashion. That doesn't nessesarily mean suits or designer clothing. Dress the best version of yourself. Dress in a way that makes you look like the ideal guy for the kind of girl you want. Some girls like gym rats, some girls like stoners, some girls like ultra conservatives, some girls like hippies. But don't any of this to be some magical thing that will make you get approached by women left and right.

Edit: I will admit to my surprise that there are far more women on here now than I suspected. That number may have gone up as high as 5 or even 10%. Even more surprising their answers are all better than what I have seen on /r/askwomen. Maybe because these represent the subset of women who do take initiative and approach. I stand very much corrected on that front. I still stand by the rest of my post though.

ferociouscat · 2017-05-16T11:23:22+00:00

The first thing is his face: strong jaw line, his eyes, if he has a nice beard.
Then probably his body, if he looks like he works out, or is into the outdoors.
On the street I can't really judge how a guy is just from how he walks, but if he dresses well a guy is infinitely hotter than a guy wearing jeans and a graphic tee.

Lastly if I'm like "Damn, this dude looks fiiiiiinnnneeee." Then I try to spot something interesting about him that I can use to start a conversation and hopefully he doesn't have a girlfriend haha.

Title	What makes you check a guy out
Author	andallhisfriends
Upvotes	37
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Date	May 15, 2017 1:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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