Looking for your inputs

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-05T17:18:45+00:00

Bad boys don't care about outcomes.

You don't have to be an asshole...just adopt similar traits to an asshole such as outcome independence and lack of hesitation. Who gives a fuck if some girl thinks you are boring?, someone else will find you charming.

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-05T15:42:42+00:00

The cure for a boring personality is to live broadly and experience as much as humanly possible. If you aren't regularly getting out of your comfort zone, start.

No-Let4101 · 2024-03-05T16:17:49+00:00

They often say to polarize is good - Maybe your personality is very neutral and people does not relate you to anything - try to find something you like and stick to that as your theme, it can be a hobby, a new activity, a profession

Build a persona out of that and that will bump your personality

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-05T19:36:47+00:00

You've hit the nail on the head. Nice guys are boring and don't really stir up any emotions. This is what women mean when they say there was no spark, they just didn't feel anything emotionally, they felt how they would around their brother or uncle.

You don't have to be an arsehole but you do need to elicit some sort of emotional response in a girl.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-03-06T07:51:27+00:00

Women like "bad boys" because they don't slut shame.

That's really what it comes down to. If you're a bad boy, you want to fuck. So you're not going to hate on women that want to do the same.

I was a bad boy in my 20s and now I'm a nice wholesome dad in my 40s. I still don't shame a woman for wanting to fuck because I want to fuck too, and I crush crazy amounts of ass.

The thing with a bad boy is that unlike the rest of the world, they let women be free to be sexual beings. That's why they do better with women than the "nice guy" that has a belief that women either are or should be innocent and virginal until married. The type that see women who openly enjoy sex and say, "They're for da streets". Women don't want to fuck that guy. They're not free to be sexual with that guy.

To fix your problem, I guess I gotta ask how quick you are to sleep with them, and if you are sleeping with them, are you doing a good job? I'm guessing either you wait a few weeks (too long) or you need to work on your bedroom skills.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-03-06T20:25:01+00:00

Here's how it works woman have to submit to a man before she will let him sleep with her. There's no relationship. Nobody will say this out loud.

If you aren't a man she doesn't fear, admire, love, hate then she can't submit. She wants to but you just don't give her a reason to.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-05T16:58:10+00:00

It's not this. Bad boys have a more dominant personality and have no qualms about putting a woman in her place (not violently of course). This excites women. They kind of want to be told what to do and have someone take the reigns. They may push back, but surrendering to a man who can call the shots is fulfilling their emotional needs. Nice guys just don't have that edge.

Title	Looking for your inputs
Author	Conscious-charlizard
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	March 5, 2024 3:38 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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