How to Make out with Women on the First Date

Yes, you can kiss women on the first date. The only exception to this is generally if it is a more traditional women or the woman is a virign. If you're reading this, it's highly unlikely that your girl is either. So, if you expect the girl you're on a date with to be ran through, or if she likes to hangout in night clubs and bars, chances are she's made out with dudes she's barely know. So, with that being said, despite what some women say, you can absolutely kiss them on the first date.

Furthermore, you're on a date with a woman, which suggests she thinks you're physically attractive (unless she's using you for a free meal), so she most likely wants to be kissed, assuming you're doing everything right.

Kino Escalation

Kino escalation is physical contact with women up until your desired outcome (in this case, making out or sex). The idea is to start out very small, and work your way up to more intimate touches, until the kiss.

Kino should be initiated as soon as you see your date by greeting her with a hug. Don't give a handshake, you're not interviewing her for a job interview. When being seated, always attempt to sit side by side to more easily touch.

When you start touching the woman on the date, you want to touches to be small and seemingly innocuous. That is, you want to seem like you are a naturally touchy guy, and not like you're touching her just for the sake of touching her, this will turn her off and make her think you are inexperienced.

When conversing with women, I like to gently and very quickly touch them with them back of my palm throughout the duration of the date (remember, start small). This small physical touch signifies that you are a touchy person and that you don't have any intentions. Don't let your palms linger when you do this, it has to be seemingly innocent and should last no more than .5-2seconds.

Then you make your way up, by holding hands. During dates I literally let the woman do the majority of the talking and never talk about myself unless I have a funny story to tell or if she asks questions about me. I'm generally only talking to stimulate her emotions and make her laugh, and regularly establishing romantic interest to seduce her. This seductive process causes them to like you more, so holding hands isn't an issue, especially if you've been doing slight touches.

If you don't feel comfortable holding hands, you can escalate slower by playing games with your hands -- like trying to see if she can slap them before you move them out of the way or palm reading. But ultimately, you have to be bold and take risks. That's just how it is, escalation is always on the man, so don't be afraid to take her hand.

When holding hands, always make sure that you are the first to let go. If she lets go first, it's not usually a good sign and means you need to work to build more attraction.

After doing all of this, and building attraction by kino escalating and being seductive and stimulating her emotions, you gauge and see if she is ready to be kissed.

When I'm about to kiss a girl, I indirectly let her know by holding her hands, looking into her eyes, then looking at her lips for a few seconds, then back into her eyes.

If she doesn't move back or away, and if she doesn't break eye contact, this means she's ready to be kissed. If she does look away or move back, this means you need to build more attraction, so make her laugh, let her do the majority of the talking, and continue the seductive process.

If you're ever confused about how to be seductive, just literally shut up, let her do the majority of the talking, be a good listener (outwardly oriented), show genuine interest in her by asking questions that demonstrate you are interested, establish romantic interest throughout the date. make her laugh, tell good stories, physically escalate through seemingly harmless touch, kiss

After you've kissed a girl once and you begin making out, you pretty much have permission to continue kissing her throughout the date. This doesn't mean to invite her to your place right then and there, but it does mean that you should comfortably be able to go for the kiss again and not get denied. Remember, after kissing, the seductive process continues.

Protip: if you ever make out with a girl, you can almost always invite her back to your place and she will comply.

This article goes into more extensive detail:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-physically-escalate-with-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

TL;DR You're on a date with a woman who presumably considers you to be physically attractive. Unless you have it on good authority that she is not ran through or a more traditional woman (especially if she is from a country with traditional values) you can always kiss them on the first date. When implementing kino, start out with very small touches that are harmless that suggest that you are just a normally touchy guy, after continuing the seductive process, you can become more intimate by either jumping straight into hand holding (or by playing games with your hands first) then, after being more seductive, you look into her eyes, at her lips for a few seconds, and then back into her eyes to gauge her readiness to be kissed. If she indicates that she is not ready, continue the seductive process and build more attraction. After kissing her once, kissing her again throughout the date is no big deal, and you can invite her back to your place and most likely not be denied.

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