8 years of relationship and My Gf Cheated on me. 23M

SF_Inner_Game_Coach · 2024-02-11T21:26:40+00:00

Take a break and heal yourself. The dating market will be here when you're ready. No tips or advice. Just focus on yourself.

Sorry dude.

PrinceDestin · 2024-02-11T20:23:32+00:00

Well now your trying to go back into the game without being healed, which will make you screw over the girls you eventually start messing with and thus the endless cycle of hurt people,hurt people

MattPruga · 2024-02-11T18:40:48+00:00

Getting back in the "game" to me means that you will seduce multiple females and not get attached to one along the way. That's one of the fundamental rules of "game", to stop oneitis. Good luck, there is a lot of stuff you can find in this subreddit alone but most of it is normie incel tips. Maybe look at a few of my posts because I relate to you.

TonyDCoaching · 2024-02-11T18:35:28+00:00

I'm sorry man. The best thing to do is learn how to approach women, get dating again. Lots of resources for that.

Far_Ad_5350 · 2024-02-11T18:45:47+00:00

You’re so young though, you’ll look back and be so thankful for what you learned. Time to start your own path and take advantage of this hurtful situation.

tifauk · 2024-02-12T05:45:16+00:00

I'm speaking as someone who got out of a 9 year relationship last June.

You don't sound ready by the comments on here. You honestly sound like you need to heal a bit first.

I was sleeping with someone two weeks after I left my wife, and while it was great, it was just masking the trauma.

Only now am I getting myself in the frame to go and cold approach and look after myself.

Time is a healer, let time happen before you push yourself into doing something that sounds like you're not comfortable doing right now.

JaidenPouichareal · 2024-02-12T06:52:29+00:00

One thing or another you can't make anyone prevent cheating, you gotta vet tf out of a woman and the sign of her cheating is if you are begging her for sex the reason why is because she is sexually satisfied and she'll probably start making excuses to not want to have sex.

EquipmentJunior16 · 2024-02-12T07:37:37+00:00

Rule 1 of the game: Face your fears

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-02-11T20:32:45+00:00

Focus on your internal guts so you can stay more detached and have enough options to be able to pick a girl that respects you and is capable of long term loyalty...only way to find someone like that is to date dozens of women if not hundreds

VrilHunter · 2024-02-12T09:02:44+00:00

People wont agree with me and are going to downvote me to hell, but saying from experience it almost always begins with the man's fault. You did something wrong or didnt to something right. But she wont say it directly. She'll find a backup first and then leave.

People wont agree because they can't analyse their own faults. Let's be honest, most relationships die emotionally and sexually first but people ignore the signs and then one day act surprised and rage about "i was so good to her, how could she do this to me?!"

Chances are the man first got needy, whiny, childish, crying, insecure, undependable etc. way before she actually cheated. Men never blame it on themselves. Ofcourse, it's also her fault to cheat but you cannot control others. You can only control yourself and you failed to do it. Moreover, you failed to acknowledge this. And thus, everything came crumbling down.

All you can do now is learn what went wrong and never do it with the next girl. As for her, forget her, but dont forget the lesson.

neverknowwhatsnext · 2024-02-11T22:19:22+00:00

You can't imagine how much I want to say, eventually, they all do. I won't, though. It's probably something you did or did not do and not her choice. Sorry for your loss... or congratulations. I'm not sure.

Title	8 years of relationship and My Gf Cheated on me. 23M
Author	dukeyee
Upvotes	23
Comments	22
Date	February 11, 2024 6:28 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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