I’m often baffled by the “Gym all day” and “Pick Up studying guys”. Do guys not know that the most attractive thing they can do and be at any age is “Be Stable”? Dare I say financial stable....

Kentucky_Supreme · 2020-02-12T12:22:22+00:00

I've got my own place, my car is paid off, and my savings grows every month. I haven't noticed any difference in dating results from 10 years ago when I was a broke college student living at home.

soprano1919 · 2020-02-12T15:24:38+00:00

If you wanna be a beta male provider. You go from 2 to 10 because women want to use you because you can buy them all the stupid shit they want but cant afford.

Poshtech · 2020-02-12T12:38:58+00:00

This is not true unless you're interested in a sugar baby or gold digger. The most attractive thing we can do is be more sexually appealing to women, which entails going to the gym and dressing better.

le_GoogleFit · 2020-02-12T09:42:25+00:00

I don't think there are many guys who fit that stereotype. Most people probably go to the gym and "study" as one of the many other activities that they have in their life

Xazax310 · 2020-02-12T11:33:51+00:00

This only holds true if you want a LTR with that woman. Women will fuck anyone.

Money/stable life DOES matter when you're trying to build a life with a girl. The "Good" ones will never stick around if you don't have your life/money shit together.

But you definitely don't go

You literally go from a 2 to a 10 in the eyes of women.

salemslots · 2020-02-12T15:27:46+00:00

money means nothing unless you ar trying to attract much older women in general.

The girls we all want deep down (the super hot 18 year olds) don't care at all. They just want a handsome, fun guy. He could be unemployed and she wouldn't care if he's hot

Ugly rich guy hitting on some 18 year old will just get stone walled

PontusOfMars · 2020-02-12T17:52:51+00:00

Financial stability is one of those things where having it keeps you in the running, but doesn't really add much value past that.

Is it nice to have your own car and place?

Definitely.

Is it the basis for sexual attraction?

Absolutely not. As a matter of fact, leading heavily in the premise of giving a girl value through monetary means sets a man up to be seen as a provider, which most men on this sub are trying to avoid.

There are women who'll fuck a jobless man on pissy mattresses in skidrow or the guy who made their burger behind the In-&-Out. When it comes to sexual attraction, concessions can and will be made.

ProFriendZoner · 2020-02-12T20:51:49+00:00

All about the money.

Think not?

Think again!

Go down to your local skid row and see how many hotties are dating homeless men.

PiperBigBell · 2020-02-12T16:17:14+00:00

Money does not turn women on to want to fuck. It only appeals to their need for stability and nesting. It also makes them want to use you for everything but sex, meaning they can use their body as leverage. You'll basically end up trading money for lust free sex. Ultimately your behavior still has to be most important to make her both legitimately comfortable and horny. There are plenty of men who are affluent and you see them getting arrested for sexually assaulting broads. Or guys who are affluent and single, or not fucking. Why? Because even with all that money they lack masculinity and sex appeal.

smoothmax · 2020-02-12T16:24:57+00:00

There is a psych theory that women tend to break down into these categories:

Neurotic (insecure)

Psychotic (crazy)

Extroverted (vivacious)

For dating purposes, chicks assign men to these categories:

1) Nice Guy (preferred by Neurotic women)

2) Bad Boy (preferred by Psychotic women)

3) Leader (preferred by Extroverted women)

4).Provider

Providers are NOBODY'S first choice. But they are EVERYBODY'S second choice. So when women get tired of wimpy nice guys, wild, unpredictable bad boys and a hyperactive leaders ... always organizing hiking trips and shit ... they often settle down with a boring paycheck who buys them a car and a house.

The good news is, you're not locked in. You can be the nice guy who gets her coffee. The wild man who brings her to down to the beach and fucks her on vacation. The guy who decides where to have dinner. And a stable guy who gets a job and doesn't get fired.

For the purposes of pickups and lays, you be one guy or another, assessing the girl's character and mood and going with the flow.

DidNotLuckOut · 2020-02-12T19:11:51+00:00

Nah man. I know plenty of stable guys who have no game who get no pussy. Also know broke ass losers who get laid regularly while living with parents. I don’t think you know what you are talking about.

2020-02-13T17:44:13+00:00

Financial stability means jack shit if you are not confident and can't a conversation with another women. We all know the stories about the guys who have nothing going going on in their life but getting girls like crazy. Like the prisoner who seduced the security guard at prison and impregnated her.

Klaus_RSA · 2020-02-12T09:29:04+00:00

You mean a walking ATM......

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