Hey guys it's been a few days since my last FR write up but honestly a whole lot has happened. No closes but some cool magical type stuff.

Date

  • 6/10/17

Mood

  • Wanted to chill before my friends wedding
  • Exploring kind of mood
  • Was being open and wanted this place to show me what it was about

I headed out the night before my friends wedding alone again to Hampden, for some reason I am getting really used to being alone when I go out and it sounds weird but i'm starting to prefer it since I can run around and do what I want to. Its way easier approaching when I have a wingman but I feel the more I go out alone then I will become better at getting girls that much faster.

After arriving I parked my car and walked up and down the block to get a feel for the general vibe. It was about 11PM on the dot and the scene was very average. No super loud bars or anything but there were large groups of people at only 2 of the bars. The rest were basically dead with the obvious regulars hanging out with their close friends in them. These bars were pretty quiet and looked boring so I didn't bother.

The first place I went into was a Japanese restaurant by day, and by night they would move the tables and have a DJ come in. It was very loud and sort of bumping but the people in here were already in their cliques and busting into them would be very awkward. So I walked up to the bar area and just observed and listened. There was this one dude next to me flirting hard (i think it was a tinder date) with this cute short haired white girl that was a bit older than the average age in here. It was interesting just observing these people for a few minutes. However the DJ screwed up and broke the PA system or something and the music stopped. People started talking really quiet and it got awkward. There was also a fog machine that kept spraying fog so it made things that much more weird. I waited until the fog came back on then disappeared like fucking batman haha.

As I made my way back down the street I noticed there were just random drunk folks walking around talking to each other being funny and what not, I thought that now would be a good time to head to Frazier's. I walked into the larger part of this bar and slowly walked up to get a beer. Walking up I observed again what people were doing and wearing. As well as who was likely to be single or taken. It's very interesting when you take a step back and take a whole scene in. You notice a lot of things.

Once I got to the bar I saw this really cute girl, like really cute sitting by herself to my left messing around on her phone. I take note of this then order my normal beer. I usually only have my card on me and I attempted to pay. The Bar tender says "$10 minimum sorry" I look around frantically at anyone who might need a beer. The guys on my right oddly had like 6 beer bottles in front of them. And everyone else was too far away to ask, the really cute girl to my left had an almost empty cup so I simply asked her and I wasn't even flirting just said simply "what are you drinking? I'll get you another" she immediately smiled and said "It's an Anthem." I looked back at the bartender and told him, "another one of those please, thanks" I sit down next to her and started drinking my beer, honest to goodness minding my business. She got her drink a few moments later and get this guys, she approached me!! She said "Hi my name is Tiffany" and put out her hand for a shake. I responded in kind, and we were off to the races. I locked eyes with her and spoke confidently and we talked for a very long time. About all kinds of stuff, none of it super important but I remembered most of what she said. After talking for a while I could see that this girl was very interesting. More than average, she was out alone that night due to a rough week. After some time at the bar I look at her and say "Hey, lets go sit somewhere else, it's too loud here" She obliged and we sat on the booths.

I took this opportunity to sit on the same side as her and get close. Like really close, we talked and talked some more. Normally I would have done more kino and other moves but this convo was better than average. Eventually I started doing that triangle gaze thing (guys this works do it!!) and kino'd a bit to which she responded with her own. Eventually I grabbed her hand and we were holding hands and I was stroking her legs, it was nice. After a bit of this we realized the time. It was about 2 am or so and the bar was closing. I grabbed her hand and we went outside for a bit, she had a smoke and talked to a friend she had ran into. I offered to walk her to her car and we walked to it while holding hands. At her car we talked a bit more and I attempted to close. like twice. But it didn't work and she denied me. I didn't want to beg so we kind of embraced each other and I went in for the kiss and was denied again! What the hell, she mentioned that she was really into me and wanted to take things slow. We kissed each other on the cheek and then departed. It felt like i was really vibing with her so I wanted to see where this went. She was a bit taller than me and very attractive so I thought I was doing good for myself, so why not.

Eventually I did take this girl out on a first date, will write this up in another FR and will link it. Thanks for reading!

Home Mood

  • Couldn't believe I found someone so cool in MD of all places

  • Buzzing with happiness

  • Proud that a girl that attractive approached me