My problem is I can't keep the spark going after date 2, how do I fix this?

DavidGolani11 · 2017-08-30T04:09:39+00:00

You must be optimistic. Self-conscious, inward thinking is just self-defeating. Confidence is the key, when you see her don't act like a lost puppy who found its master. When you see her, smile and say "How YOU doin?" and tell her what you two will be doing tonight. (NEVER ASK, she wants you to decide, if she doesn't want that she will suggest something else)

BestSC86 · 2017-08-30T17:49:38+00:00

Be more fun and worth hanging around....

I am thinking that you meet the attractive criteria because you are getting dates but are boring the hades out of them on your dates.

I suspect that your dates are the dry, interview for my girlfriend (are we soulmates) type of dates which give the girl no reason to want to invest her precious dating resources in the future.

If you are fun, engaging and entertaining to be around, then I guarantee you that most girls will die to spend time around you.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-08-30T01:52:02+00:00

Are you escalating during the first and second date?

NTSpike · 2017-08-30T05:51:16+00:00

Have you slept with any of these girls? I don't have any context but I'm going to guess that you're failing to sleep with these girls and thus failing to get enough investment from these girls to continue being interested in seeing you.

Correct me if I'm wrong, as it's a large assumption I'm making.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-08-30T08:21:30+00:00

are you fucking the girls day 1? if you want to have a LTR then it helps to not try and fuck the girls right away

NTSpike · 2017-08-30T05:51:16+00:00

Have you slept with any of these girls? I don't have any context but I'm going to guess that you're failing to sleep with these girls and thus failing to get enough investment from these girls to continue being interested in seeing you.

Correct me if I'm wrong, as it's a large assumption I'm making.

Title	My problem is I can't keep the spark going after date 2, how do I fix this?
Author	jewfro667
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	August 30, 2017 1:37 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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