Hello there, Here is some background. I am guy and I am a quite sexual person. Sometimes I think that I may be addicted to sex actually (1-2 a day). That said, I am currently in a serious relationship which I don't want to end, but at the same time I really want to have sex with girls that I have never met before. I will not cheat, if all of the sudden your sjw red flag starts waving atop Everest after reading this. Rather than that, I wish to acquire a skillset that I did not have much chance to develop well enough. The trouble is, I have never had sex with other girls besides my current partner. My current partner is the only partner I have ever had.

That said, I don't have experience talking to girls about sex other than my partner. This makes it difficult to me to conceptualize an interaction like that with strangers. My dad and I have never had "the talk" so my only guidance to this topic is currently reddit and TV shows (i know, it's bad).

I am good looking, and I notice that old ladies generally dig me a lot. But I am interested in younger girls which (idk) are shy or repulsed by me. I have really hard time reading their facial expressions, but other signs are usually in place (change in voice, moving hair behind ear). I can make them feel special about themselves, but then idk what I need to do to make them want to have sex with me.

I am looking for some guidance about approaching girls for sex. This topic is taboo to me and I am unsure where to start. I have seen some videos online about going on a date with a girl, but I am interested in the platonic part of all this, not so much about feelings. Going to hookers is out of the question. I want the thrill of achieving all this. What topics do you talk about? How do you lead the convo so that it ends up with sex when you see that a girl may be interested in you? What body language i need to adopt to show that I am sexually interested?

What I am mainly afraid of are the consequences of rejection and that impact on my reputation. I've heard people sometimes saying that my behavior seems creepy, but I believe it is because I have troubles socializing. Once you get into a long term relationship, it is difficult to exercise your seduction social skills imo. :( Things get even more difficult when I start subjecting the problem making it appear more difficult than it is.

The way I learn is by learning from other people's experiences, so I would love to read some success and unsuccessful stories. What would be some shortcomings that I should expect?