What We Should Have Learned in School But Never Did

hefledthescene · 2018-02-08T16:18:49+00:00

"So often our self-worth and self-esteem are determined by some form of external validation. For some people it’s a promotion at a job, having their book become a bestseller, or selling their startup. For others, it’s their romantic partner. But as long as you’re trying to fill a void with something external, you’ll be attempting to fill a bottomless pit. When one problem gets solved, another one shows up."

He certainly nails the external validation and self-worth bit.

illya4000 · 2018-02-08T16:59:35+00:00

This guy must have never seen Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

galactic_fury · 2018-02-09T00:40:33+00:00

Ah, it looks like its one of Nick Notas' students. Nick really is the epitome of how a guy can genuinely help other people not just with their dating life, but their overall life too. I found his material very helpful when I started out on my journey of self-improvement. Great work Nick! You've made and continue to make a positive contribution in the lives of many

airsoft6398 · 2018-02-09T02:11:51+00:00

What a fantastic article.

NoloRadio · 2018-02-10T00:52:36+00:00

For a slightly clickbaity article, this isn't bad, but I would quibble with one point: "Not hiding your quirks and rough edges behind a mask" is not always going to endear you to people or make your life easier. It's true after a certain point in terms of self-improvement, but before that, when your 'true self' is going to make people run away screaming from neediness or social ignorance, it's genuinely not a good idea.

circlhat · 2018-02-09T03:39:52+00:00

Interesting article, but the first commenter hits the nail on the head , school isn't design for this, it's the parent job, and schools only go as for to teach men

Don't rape women

You aren't entitled to anything

In short school should stop trying to teach morals

Secondly he presents a false narrative

Many of them were honestly looking to become more confident, and have more fulfilling romantic relationships, not just sleep with as many women as possible.

Sleeping with many women as possible is in men DNA, in fact it seems to be in women's DNA too. He presents a contrast between the too. As if one is better than the other, this is low key virtue signalling, doesn't matter if you want to sleep with a girl or care for her, neither is good or bad.

giving. This is important because all wealthy people give. Giving has an incredible effect on your psyche.

Feel good bullshit, giving vs hording won't effect you in the ways he says, this is low key shaming those who don't fit your narrative.

Honestly seduction,pua is all to focus on self improvement rather than improvement on a particular skill set, which is women, which is easy once you forget all the bullshit you been taught. You don't need to be that confident, or that good looking, most guys problems stems from their social cast , if you were the weird kid in high school don't think those girls forgot , word travels, this is why god invented online dating .

Title	What We Should Have Learned in School But Never Did
Author	NickNotas
Upvotes	162
Comments	11
Date	February 8, 2018 3:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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