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[β]weallwantsomethink 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
You can go two ways: spontaneous or arranged
The arranged way is hard because most women if they think about it don't want to do threesomes. Even if you have that fuckbuddy who is high in experimentation. You have to find another girl who wants to do that too. And who likes both of you.
So unlikely..
The spontaneous way is much more realistic. That means having two girls who are in their early twenties party phase and living together.
So you go to your usual pick up party bar/club and try to do usual game of talking to girls. But instead of focusing in on one girl. You focus on two girls who are close friends. And who seem more experimental/out of the box.
You flirt and be nice to both of them. Don't kiss because you can't openly kiss two girls in public they won't like that. And kissing one means chosing one and a threesome is out. Just hang untill the party moves to their room/dorm whatever. Ideally you have two roomates who already share a lot privately and are good friends.
Than you are at their place still having that party vibe going on. And you just move to more sexual flirting. If you are humorous and they are tipsy you can just start kissing one of them and kiss the other one right after. Making a joke like "can't leave you behind".
And there you have a threesome.
[β]Alex_O7 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok thanks mate! I believe that i could sum two fuckbuddy situations in some way, but anyway seems to be more plausible to get two new girls pick up only for the 3some purpose...
[β]SpinPlates 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Good advice^
As for the arranged you have to ask the more conservative one first and let her beleive she's the "main" and the other is the 3rd. Most girls want a 3some but they don't want to be the outsider. They want to be the guys main girl.
[β]KetForAutisticHorses 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do you tell the 3rd that she will be the 'outsider'?
[β]SpinPlates 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Conservative girl is "are you attracted to women?" Yes? "Okay we should fine one to join us"
Wild girl "I've got a girl that's down for a 3some"
[β]weouthereslaying 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Advice isnt bad! You 100% can kiss though. Can even create a fun "jealousy" with this
[β]weallwantsomethink 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thx although imo they don't want to be seen publicly kissing the same guy.
[β]project_nl 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have a question:
I have a fwb who is interested in doing a threesome with me and a girlfriend of hers. She thinks her girlfriend would be interested in it too but she is afraid that she might cancel the date at last minute (she knows her for several years and she does that occasionally)
How should I deal with this situation? Or is it better to not do anything at all?
Simple. Talk to the girl in question. Release tentions about the encounter. Ask her number and talk to her. Be kind and respectful.
[β]LingeringGnome 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
I've had four threesomes since December (three different women, one woman twice...god damn that was hot).
One of the women was a "Christmas present" from my gf. I'm in my room reading my Kindle and listening to music. At about 1 a.m., I hear my gf and a friend come into the house. then I hear "I'm doing this because you're super into it." As a woman's voice comes up the stairs. She knocks. I open the bedroom door, and it's a former co-worker of my gf's that I've met maybe four times. She looks me in the eye and says, "I'm your Christmas present. Are you cool with it?"
I'm like..."what? Where's Sarah?" and she says "downstairs chilling. She wanted me to do this. I'm into it."
So, we start making out. I go the bathroom to get a mint ,and when I come back her clothes are off and she's laying on my bed. We have sex, and my gf comes in ten minutes later and they just go to town on each other like a pair of snakes. How's that for a Christmas present? How cool of a girlfriend is that, to want her man to experience the lust of a new woman, by himself (albeit temporarily) for his Christmas present?
I could go into a lot more (and hotter) detail, about how great that night felt, and about how positive the vibes were, but there are other points to be made.
The single best way to have consistent threesomes is to be in a LTR with an open-minded and bisexual woman...who also has bisexual friends. I filter out women who don't have these qualities on the first date. Life is way, way too short to be with stodgy conservative women. I don't have time to train people out of that.
College towns, more progressive cities also help.
The key is to isolate. the key is also to shut the fuck up, lol. Mostly. Let the two women be in their feminine. Let them play, let them chat. Don't be the douchebag frat guy who has to control the evening.
Trust me, if they're bi, they're thinking about a threesome, too. So let that BREATHE. Let it build...let your non-talking build tension. Everyone will be feeling it.
Then just whisper into your girl's ear "you have a greenlight. Go for it."
She'll take care of the rest especially if you are comfortable in your space, slightly indifferent and relaxed and not pushy. She'll want to please her emotionally-centered and chill man--who's acting like a man.
The second scenario, where you don't know the two women well, but you are having sex with one of them, also requires isolation. Trust me, all kinds of guys will try and cockblock you if they see you with two girls...happens to me all the time, and I just smirk and laugh at their passive pickup attempts.
Get that party back to your place or theirs (preferably the place with no roommates).
during the evening, when you notice the "high point" of energy, take out your camera and tell them you want to do a photo shoot. Order them around playfully into positions, and at the last order, have them touch each other's hair at the same time, then say "go for it. kiss. Would make a hot pic."
If both women are full of positive emotions from the fun evening and your chill attitude, and bi, they'll start making out and ripping each other's clothes off.
Like any seduction advice, obtaining threesomes is all about how much you've improved yourself as a man. If you're fit, if you're chill, if you're positive, playful, not too try-hard, and you have worked on your bedroom skills, your FWB or GF is going to tell all that shit to her girlfriends. And there will be almost NO effort required if you isolate because word of mouth about you is exceptional.
Every aspect of this...every ounce of it is about self-improvement. It comes to a point where you have evolved to such a level that you almost have to put no effort in game anymore.
[β]Alex_O7 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It is motivational mate! Thanks!
[β]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No problem!
[β]leddituser123 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh look itβs our man LingeringGnome again, motivating us with exceptional results. Remember me? We exchanged some comments. Iβm the 22 year old.
When going out i saw a dude making out with 3 girls at the same time. Sure as heck didnβt score them from cold approach. Probably from his social circle (popular kid). But i guess improving yourself and being a genuine person will get you further in life than playing the popular kid through college.
Yep, agreed. And glad to help.
[β]exhibitionistcouplez 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Situation 1? You've got a girl who's down and another you're not sure. Bring up the threesome to the girl who's down. Ask her if she's into girls and tell her you would love to watch her play with one. Talk it up gently, gauge her reaction, and have her help wingman it. Having a girl on your actual side and down for the threesome multiplies your chances by at least 10.
TBH I've only ever had success with arranged though. I date bisexual girls who want to fuck women anyway so in the end from my perspective it's all about having a girl who wants to fuck you and finding a girl who's bi who is down for the threesome.
I've never in my life pulled two chicks at the same party into one bedroom at the same time when I didn't know them so maybe someone else has info on that.
[β]Alex_O7 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thanks mate!
[β]GuyFromDaStore 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hook up with a girl and then suggest a threesome, if she's up to it she will probably get one of her friends involved. Let her choose and remember the threesome is worth it even though her friend isn't as good looking. Trust me a FFM threesome is worth it.
[β]LeonLee21 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm very direct brother (check videos on my profile) if you have the intention of having a 3some it is easiest when the girls are at least open to that too. So how do you know? I always like to progress the situation towards the 3 of us touching, and then kissing. If you drink, initiating body shots is an easy way to start this off where you make both girls take them at the same time with you and initiate the triple kiss (good start) From the triple kiss I want to already be thinking about or knowing where the 3some is going down, who's bedroom. Then just lead the night to there, continuing to kiss both girls, having them kiss each other, and once its in the bedroom you're in.
[β]Alex_O7 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok cool, it is fine when in a club or in similar situations you're gaming is very good with two girls and they don't have problem in do that. But now i'm wondering if i can trigger that situations if i know before the two girls (already worked as well as i can), and i know i can have sex with them (individually), and than i create the situations. Or a threesome is possible only if the two girls already know each others?
[β]LeonLee21 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Everything is possible brother and everything is a case by case basis. I would try and have sex with them individually and when you do thats when I would ask them, have you ever been with another girl? If they say yes, I always tell them thats a huge turn on for me and would they be down having a 3some w/ me and another girl. If they say no they haven't then I ask, are you adventurous, you'd try everything once right? Unless its a firm no you have a good shot, proceed to tell them how much of a turn on it is for you like above, and if she wants to please you she will at least be open to the possibility. Best case scenario she already has a girl in mind and you score her too, more of the time you'll need to set it up with the other girl for it to go down, which you're already doing..
Thanks bro. I asked that only because i'm going to start two different fuckbuddy relationship, and for me would be great if that two girls could sum up for a 3some
[β]LeonLee21 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do it brother! And for every girl that's not down there's another one who is π―
there's no failure, there's only feedback ;)
[β]LeonLee21 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yessir! π―
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