Your daygame experiences in dealing with multiple girls at once during a single set while isolating your girl?

Helmet_Icicle · 2018-02-22T20:40:00+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2018-02-23T04:17:50+00:00

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Your daygame experiences in dealing with multiple girls at once during a single set while isolating your girl?

You're going in tone-deaf if you're this focused on trying to separate a girl from her friends in the daytime. And missing the point: if a girl is interested, she'll isolate herself.

And her friends aren't people to be "dealt" with. If you view them this way, you're going to come off creepy and shoot yourself in the foot.

If you're interacting with people, treat them as PEOPLE. Not obstacles. If you treat them as variables to get out of the way, that will be ridiculously transparent and you're going to get nowhere.

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How do you usually approach a set of multiple girls where you need to single out a girl you are interested in?

"Need?" The very idea that you're deadset on singling a girl out this quickly, is a massive failure to have Outcome Independence.

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How are female friends of the girl you are trying to game reacting to you at that moment - are they competitive, jealous, cold? Talking about both USA and Europe? What are your experiences with overly protective female friends?

They'll react like people. And if a random stranger walks up to a group of PEOPLE, focuses on one of them immediately, and tries to take her away, while ignoring them or clearly having no interest in interacting with them, how do you think they're going to react? Hint: Of course they're going to react by closing ranks and rejecting the stranger hard. Because he didn't even relate to them as people and was instead, focused solely on his own wants.

Social interactions are a balancing act. We ALL want things. But if you can balance pursuit of what YOU want, with consideration and understanding for what others want, then you'll get somewhere. All that takes is being attentive.

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Edit: the set can also be just two girls

Doesn't change anything. Talk to people like people and without agenda. Find out what they're about. Have fun with it. Facilitate people to open up about themselves: get them talking about themselves and the conversation will be on auto-pilot. Be comfortable with yourself and with a little casual, non-invasive contact. And things will sort themselves out.

In this sort of scenario, the girls will sort out amongst themselves who wants you and come to an unspoken agreement about it. IF one or both of them are interested, anyway.

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there s always that one fucking mom of the group that will cock block.

Sentiments like this miss the point. Cockblocking is one of the most misunderstood things that people post about.

If a girl is truly interested, she'll find her way around someone trying to cockblock. If she lets it happen, she doesn't want it to happen, and that's often because of missteps by the guy trying to get at her.
Her friends or family won't cockblock if you're savvy and handling your shit right. If you're doing it right, they'll become your wingmen.

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Many daygamers, myself included, just don't bother with group sets in daygame.

Many "daygamers" have a lack of vision. Socializing with PEOPLE, opens doors. Groups are the best, especially if you are out solo.

Getting adopted by a group of people will lead to some of the most fun situations, especially if you're out for a night on the town or on vacation.

Whereas going into all social interactions with the singular focus of getting a girl alone, leads to missing out on a lot of opportunities. Quite often, getting into a group leads to getting at a girl much easier.

__ManBeast__ · 2018-02-22T20:53:25+00:00

Mystery Method, man. Become friends with the group, with no open intentions for pickup, even excluding the target so she feels left out. Then once you've got the group's trust, you work on the girl. It's simple (not particularly easy, but simple).

SaintMichael415 · 2018-02-23T07:03:45+00:00

Never approach a two set alone.

Arcenturion · 2018-02-23T02:32:34+00:00

Many daygamers, myself included, just don't bother with group sets in daygame. There's a difference between daygame group sets and nightgame group sets in that groups in daygame are mobile and intent on a specific activity, whereas groups in nightgame are more stationary and intent on socialization.

Even if you're comfortable when it comes to interacting with group sets in daygame, it's just too much effort. You'll have to obtain the number of the girl you like in such a way that she won't feel judged by the other people in her group. I suppose that can be done through getting everyone's number under the pretext of a social event to invite them later to, or by getting on good terms with everyone to the point where they would be willing to encourage the girl to give you her number. One nice thing is that in these cases, the fact that you were able to approach a group in daygame is an even bigger confidence signal than approaching a solo set.

That being said, I think that if you go out to do daygame, you should do it in locations where there is a sufficient quantity of single women around. If you do it the London Daygame Model style like I do, establishing a man-to-woman vibe from the beginning is key, which is only something you can do with girls by themselves so they won't feel judged by their peer group.

michaelpua · 2018-02-24T08:58:20+00:00

I don’t approach groups at all, I only focus on single(solo) girls..

Title	Your daygame experiences in dealing with multiple girls at once during a single set while isolating your girl?
Author	SocialReject101
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	February 22, 2018 8:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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