[27/m] I have been trying to meet girls for the last year and a half. I missed out on college and most of my life. I feel like I have missed any chance with a good girl. Any advice?

masteryimain34 · 2018-03-08T02:53:02+00:00

Keep working at it. I play videogames maybe 6 hours a day still. I dont even go out. But i know how to talk to women. women want to be pulled. WOMEN WANT TO BE PULLED. Be fun. Be positive. Be the free spirit inside. Just find it. you can still be a computer geek and have a world theory... WHY ARE WE HERE??? Find your theory. own it. and use it to help you connect to other people. i was a waiter. it didnt fix my problems i still sucked at opening up to strangers but it helped me get girls attracted because i wasnt afraid to approach and i looked friendly and social. Thats what gets a girl attracted

NoloRadio · 2018-03-08T07:04:09+00:00

A 'time out' from a more active social life is what you make of it. Lift, read big thick books, do some self-reflection. When you're ready to move to a bigger city again, you'll be in better shape to take advantage of it.

SwoleLegs · 2018-03-08T18:37:25+00:00

You definitely haven’t missed your chance with a good girl, you’ve just been knocked back a few times and are letting that effect your confidence.

Why do you think you missed out on college and your life?

How short were your flings?

LingeringGnome · 2018-03-08T20:31:55+00:00

Let me be brutally honest:

The fact you think that you're now 27 years old, and your social life is over conveys to me you lack self-awareness and an ability to grasp proper context, which is likely hurting you with women.

27 is just getting started.

Go to the gym, start hitting the weights 3x a week, full body. Keep your carbs under 80 grams a day. Focus on your career (as you are doing). No TV in your spare time, read non-fiction and fiction (get a Kindle or hit up your library) to increase your vocabulary and awareness.

Tokemoke · 2018-03-09T17:15:08+00:00

change your attitude. I really only started seeing real results at 26 because I stopped caring and went for it. I am 28. Chatting up women on the street in broad daylight is a gift to both you and the women you approach or go to clubs if you like. You have tons of time dude.

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