I went to a museum last weekend. It was a Casanova themed exhibit.
The museum was filled with Casanova’s life quotes and accomplishments.
(Did you know Casanova only banged ~100 chicks in his 60 years of living? I found that disappointing, haha. Because this dude is a HUGE legend. If that’s the truth then call me Casanova Plus.)
As a student of seduction and social mastery, I was fascinated by the exhibit.
Here’s some shit I learned at the museum, though.
Casanova wasn’t always trying to spit game and get laid.
Sometimes he’d just “practice his seduction skills”.
Practice. Just practice.
He wasn’t trying to smash. Wasn’t trying to pull. He was just fucking around.
And I liked that. I really liked that. And it completely changed how I view my day to day interactions.
Game is a skill just like anything else.
Baseball players aren’t trying to hit a home run at practice. They’re just trying to feel confident with their swing.
You as a student of seduction shouldn’t always feel the need to get the number in every interaction. Or the need to close. You should feel confident just talking. You’re just messing around and learning how to feel comfortable in a free-flowing interaction.
The best part is you can practice your seduction skills anywhere and everywhere. At work, with female friends, with cashiers, with your classmates. Any low risk situation is a good place to practice your seduction.
When you think of what GOOD GAME looks like... it’s actually prettyyyy fucking simple.
Good game is simply you feeling completely at ease in a high stakes situation with a girl you’re attracted to.
Don’t underestimate that by the way.
That a REAL fucking skill people PAY thousands of dollars to learn. That’s a thousand dollar skill. And I’m telling you this because I get messages all the time of guys who fucked up their chances. Repeatedly. They had a girl who was into them and they just couldn’t capitalize. Opportunity lost.
Shame...
The benefit of practicing your seduction skills (and knowingly doing it) is that any “outcome dependence” completely disappears. Like, it’s gone.
Poof.
You know you’re just “practicing” and it doesn’t matter if the girl is into you or not. So you have more fun with it. You test things out. You get comfortable doing or saying certain things.
Then the big show happens.
You’re at the bar, club, or party. And all the practice you did earlier in the week comes into play.
You feel sharp. Warm. Confident. Smooth. Sly. Girls sense it. You sense it. You’re just on another level. The social momentum you’ve been gaining all week is kicking in.
Then, you chat up a girl. You introduce yourself. You ask if she’s down to take a shot. She is.
You’re in.
This is where you play ball. Now we’re playing for wins. This is The Game. And you’re ready to swing for the fences. Comfortably. Confidently.
Winners practice.
Practice your seduction skills in situations that don’t matter or with girls who aren’t truly your type.
Play real fucking ball and aim for the home run with the right girls.
www.thedailypickupnewsletter.com
It’s a game, guy.
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