Is it weird to ask a girl to makeout with you?

james-robertson · 2018-04-10T06:14:00+00:00

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TheXXL · 2018-04-10T06:24:07+00:00

If you've been talking with a girl for most of the night and things have been going really well, is it weird to ask her to makeout rather than just try and force it?

If you are not a psychopath, you don't force it anyway, that doesn't mean that you have to ask.

I'm just wondering because I wouldn't want to initiate a kiss then get denied

Too scared to take a tiny risk? What can possibly happen, will you die?

especially at a bar where people would watch it happen.

Will they kill you?

Also, it gives the girl a chance to say no if she's not feeling it.

Haha sure, like that's what you are concerned about. You are just scared. You also know as well as we all know, women are no toddlers that cannot say no or decline an advance.

Stop asking for permission, observe her reaction and be aware that the worst case is that she turns her head away. Also, no one really cares in a bar, not even if a insecure guy gets rejected by a girl.

WIA20XX · 2018-04-10T09:52:57+00:00

tab13092 · 2018-04-10T14:18:50+00:00

First off, don't ever try to force something. I know what you were getting at, just going for it rather then asking, but deff don't use the word force because that instantly sends the wrong message.

As for asking? I probably would just go for it and worst case you get rejected (chances are, if you've gotten to a point where you're contemplating it you gut's telling you that its a possible thing)

And in the end, no matter what, things only get weird if you make them weird. If you get rejected or anything that's uncomfortable just play it off/be cool about it. You get what you cast out; cast out weird vibes and in turn you will receive weird vibes.

bolxrex · 2018-04-10T20:42:20+00:00

Yes it's weird to ask for permission. It's also state cancelling for both yourself and the woman youre asking. Always better to state intention/desire.

Learn to read body language. She will let you know if she wants to kiss very clearly with posture and eye contact.

2018-04-10T07:04:07+00:00

Kids these days actually say "wanna make out?" Seems ridiculous to me. Back in the day we would read BODY LANGUAGE. Guess kids of tomorrow will have to sign waivers before touching each other.

2018-04-10T06:26:26+00:00

Thats how I always do it. Nothing bad ever happens if you were assuming wrong, and it really can come off cute.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-10T06:45:02+00:00

Usually a girl will start it by saying "I'm bored". So you respond "Wanna make out?"

Title	Is it weird to ask a girl to makeout with you?
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Date	April 10, 2018 6:08 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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