Feeling like you owe a girl a relationship in order to have sex

2018-04-25T13:01:32+00:00

You’re putting her on a pedestal because you’re attracted to her. As my buddy once said, “If you can treat a girl you’re attracted to the same way as a girl that you aren’t, you’re on the right path.”

b0100010 · 2018-04-25T13:15:41+00:00

why do you think that all women want relationships?

pua_help · 2018-04-25T18:10:09+00:00

Make sure you escalate sexually on the first date. Once you've had sex with her a couple times, be upfront that you're not looking for a relationship. Maybe she'll ditch you at that point or maybe she'll want to be FWB. But even if she walks away, you've already gotten laid and she likely won't be too upset because hasn't had a chance to develop feelings. Do this enough times and you'll end up with a few FWBs and a regular stream of one/two night stands. Which is a pretty great thing.

ImSweetness · 2018-04-25T20:09:55+00:00

Alright so I didn't read any previous answers but here's my experience:

Chicks want sex too. If you ever feel ashamed of your own sexuality and desires, she will feel that. I was once dating a chick for a couple months that was sexy and let me play with her cat. But whenever I thought about sex with her, I thought "Fk. Can't do it. She'd wanna be in a relationship." I basically assumed that she would want one and therefore would not take further sexual escalation. Huge mistake. Huge assumption on my part, and now I got ghosted.

Set the tone: You're a open, sexual guy that is having fun and would like to see where this goes. You're not looking for anything serious yet, you're just having fun. Hope this helped.

t1mman · 2018-04-25T14:28:10+00:00

There are two categories of mating potentials for woman:

-The "I want your gene" type: See, when you display a source of good genes (proper to her), she'll want to propagate your gene because you will produce better offspring's. Being in shape, having a good face symmetry, being successful, showing leadership, those kind of things will make her want to sleep with you in the "right and now". Now, the clues of good genes are not necessarily valid nor universal, so someone with a nice car could trigger some, someone with a better physic could trigger others, etc, etc.

-The "you seem like a good provider" type: Now, this is the type of man she will "wait for" because he is a potentially good provider. She'll be able to hold and "play her card" in a way that is more pragmatic. These are the type of man she will put up with and will build a "home" and a family. There are some patterns that helps her put a man in this catégorie, like doing all for her, never doing any sort of complaisance, treating her like a "princess", doing everything at her place, those sort of things.

If you don't want to be seen as a provider, you need to make her "chase you", make her "qualify", those sort of things. If you go to a woman with the "I'll prove my worth to you" mindset, she will see you as a potential provider.

Title	Feeling like you owe a girl a relationship in order to have sex
Author	Bigbighero99
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	April 25, 2018 12:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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