When you keep getting rejected, do you tend to think:
'Them girls just weren't into me. Nothing I could have said or done would have changed it. They were, as Mark Manson says 'no girls' . On to the next!''.
Or do you think that it was some mistake with your 'game', because, with 'perfect game', you should be getting basically every girl you approach (as mystery alluded too in his '5 for 5' rule)
I tend to think that they are just 'no girls' although i'm always looking to learn.
I find most of the time if I approach some hot girl in a bar, whether I open indirect or direct, the result is often a fast rejection along the lines of 'sorry, you're not my type. Have a good night'', or sometimes they will literally just turn their head or/and walk away.
As I say, even very indirect opens can get this reaction, ,especially from young girls in bars, because they just assume (know! lol) that you are hitting on them. That's like the only reason guys approach random girls in bars (here at least)
So I might make a comment on her item of clothing or about her expression, or about something going on in the environment or whatever, and she'll still maybe tell me i'm not her type. I might make a joke about her being 'persumptuous' and she'll STILL fail to 'hook' at all and might just walk away or turn her head away from me for example. Then i'm not sure what to do lol
I try all kinds of 'methods' to 'turn' these girls, but never anything even resembling 'success'.
I can, however, pull girls who are 'into me' the second I say 'hi', or who give me IOI's before opening them (this also kind of confirms that, in the case of rejections, i'm not doing anything 'weird' or whatever. I don't have a bad 'vibe', because, if I did, even the 'yes girls' would turn be down before sex, and they don't!)
So yeah, give me your thoughts - and if you are in the camp that believes that game is everything and your looks don't matter etc, i'd be open to hearing what lines I should be using to ''turn' girls who just walk away from me after I open, or who tell me i'm not their type etc. (Usually it might be ''sorry, you're too short'' or last night for example, the girls FRIEND said to her ''Stacey, there's gonna be much better looking people than him out tonight! Let's move on!!!'' after I opened her and she talked back briefly.) I use the 'agree and amplify' when short is brought up, and try to be playful or use all kinds of 'game theory' but without 'physical attraction' on her part, i'm struggling bad!
Last year got 6 lays from maybe 500 approaches, and this year 1 lay from maybe 700 approaches.
edit: Also just remembered quite a funny one from last night (funny because she was both rude and sweet in a way). I was like ''Hey, how's your night going?'' and she said ''Sorry, your not my type. I'm trying to get the attention of the hot barguy because I want his number. Thanks for trying, though. And honestly , have a really good night!'' all with kind body language and a genuine smile with a sweet, authentic voice lol. Like she was unaware that this was kind of painful to shoot me down like that lol
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