I'm having trouble not only with attracting women but with the fact that I'm not attracted to them. If I am attracted, there's a delay, and by that time it's too late. I need to know them for a bit for the feelings to kick in and for me to really want to pursue them. This is somewhat disastrous as I come off as fake at first, and when I ask or give my number it's declined because it's obvious that the feeling isn't there, and I guess they're turned off by it.

I've been doing things the boring route. I went to two speed dating events, but was only interested in one girl out of a total of about 10. The delay was of course present, I didn't know I liked her until afterwards, and I sent a message to the organizer and she said the girl didn't want to go on a date.

There was one really cool girl (cold approached her), but I fucked up..the delay, she declined the number but she's on my fb. I think that option is gone. There's one girl I met on POF who I'm not really into that seems to be into me but I made her my friend. I'm not really into her, something's missing. There was one other girl, cutest thing in the world, that I really liked, I was in the zone sometimes, but there was again a delay in my attraction to her (The fact that I know the guy who was dating her at the time didn't help). She's on my fb, asked her if she wanted to do something sometime, but she's not interested.

I just can't get in the zone in the moment and act. Someone on here said "get a hard on". Damn, I wish I could. Maybe I should try yohimbe or something. I don't know. It just isn't happening. I've been working on inner game too.