A little backstory about me. I'm an almost 24 year old going to college. I'm still a kissless virgin and my only dating experience is only going on dates with 3 different women since December of 2016 and nothing came out of them. These past 4 years iv'e been trying to get some dating experience without much luck. Online dating doesn't work for me so iv'e been trying to meet women in real life with mixed success.

Since 2017, iv'e been trying to pursue girls in my college classes and in the college clubs that i'm in, but in the end it always backfires and I either completely creep the girl out, or she cuts contact with me as soon as the class is over. I have no idea what i'm doing wrong since these women usually ghost me without giving an explanation.

I read Models by Mark Manson which says you should be forward with your interest relatively quickly or else you risk getting friend-zoned. So usually, I will spot a girl I like in one of my classes and then sit by her and talk to her. I will talk to her, get to know her a little bit. And if things are going well, after a couple of times of talking to one another, I will try and get her Snapchat. And then I will usually try to ask them out on a date relatively quickly, and this is the part where things usually go wrong. So within a month of talking to a girl, iv'e usually already asked her out on a date unless she has a boyfriend.

One girl I talked to in my class clearly gave me her Snapchat just to get rid of me. This was confirmed when I asked her out on a date and she didn't even respond back, just blocked me. She must have thought I was a weirdo or something... Another girl I met at a once per year college event did the same thing, she clearly gave me her Snapchat just to get rid of me, and also blocked me when I asked her out.

Another girl in my college class told me she had a boyfriend, I said okay no problem, and we still talked. But even then, she thought I was a creep and a weirdo because the other guy in our class social circle told me she thinks i'm weird and creepy even though I respect the fact she has a boyfriend.

One girl in my college class actually said yes when I asked her out on a date, and we went on several dates but nothing came out of it. But as soon as the class semester was over, she stopped replying to my texts.

​

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong, am I coming on too strong? Is it weird to hit on girls and ask them out in class?

​