Last week at the club I danced with 10+ girls that turned into long conversations with most of them, but this week I got rejected every single time. What did I do wrong?

2018-12-31T12:01:26+00:00

Every girl I approached I got rejected. I gave up after 3 rejections

LOL

elsipha · 2018-12-31T12:34:06+00:00

You danced with 10+ girls the first night You approached 3 girls the second night

If you would have approached 7 more girls the second night, you could have 70% success (7/10) but you wont ever know now

Coca cola dont close business because 3 people prefered Pepsi

You felt entitled to be liked by every girls. The world doesnt work like that.

I talked about that in the business analogy I posted yesterday. The more you got rejected the more you go in your head, the less you are present, and that makes you perform badly and forget to expose yourself

mistermeanmistermean · 2018-12-31T08:27:13+00:00

Conversation didn't make them hot for you

PUA19124 · 2018-12-31T15:30:37+00:00

NEVER give up till you get blown out or till you get blown!

Generally women aren't won over by words. They're won over by actions.

Read Tom Torero or Chase Amante...

You have yet to begin your studies. Don't say you suck at Algebra one week into the class.

Remember, even Paul Janka had an 11% Success rate. Only one out of 9 numbers he got turned into a lay. This is not a high percentage game.

UrbanDevice · 2018-12-31T17:07:52+00:00

So bad in fact, it shattered my ego

your ego, thats your problem. Only thing you can do is go on. Keep on trying, keep on failing, but some day you get the big win :) Don't do it just for the validation dude, do it for the fun!

2018-12-31T18:33:14+00:00

Its because you were expecting to repeat last time, and you got needy because you were frustrated that it wasn’t panning out the same way.

For an analogy, sometimes a car salesman sells 5 cars in one day, sometimes he sells none.

I have a saying, the less you expect the more will happen.

kennotheking · 2018-12-31T21:58:04+00:00

Of course you did better with an attractive female friend and are simply having a good time. If you didn't drink anything and were there to "practice pickup" with another guy, scanning the room for meat, no girl's gonna open up - even with the smoothest opens.

Work on your vibe - something about the way you and your friend were acting, what you wore, not providing fun, etc. turned them off.

Dirtylittlesecret88 · 2019-01-01T13:13:32+00:00

It's not even a trend. It's from one week to the next. Why you tripping about nothing man? Michael Jordan doesn't care when hes missed ten shots in a row because he ends up hitting the game winning shot. But you psyched yourself out after 3 attempts.

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