How to get sex without a serious relationship? [22M]

Manu27uk · 2019-01-16T06:05:14+00:00

Tinder.

Put pictures of you at the beach to show your body, or at the gym. Some with your friends to show you are not a douchebag...

In your bio, turn it as you don't want something serious, and you'll get your contact...

Check on r/tinder

im_unseen · 2019-01-16T08:34:12+00:00

Logistics. I've never been a girls boyfriend before we had sex.

Invite her for an after party if you're out. Invite her to paint with you at your house. Invite her to cook with you. Invite her to see a cool place or rooftop that's close to your place and go inside after. Go on a date or partying and drop her stuff at your house first and wait until you come back home tipsy. Or just go on a date and make her feel good and laugh and tell her to come with you when you two peak. Tell her literally anything stupid or straightforward besides "to have sex with you". Or text her for a long time and never meet, get really close to her and then after u've gained her trust just invite her straight to the crib.

Wobbly_Horse · 2019-01-16T06:02:47+00:00

Just take girls out and invite them over afterwards. Not sure if this is a serious question. Tinder is an easy way, but you still have to put effort into gaining their trust

noprideinsomniac95 · 2019-01-16T14:14:50+00:00

You have to communicate that from the beginning, be it explicitly or implicitly. Asking a girl if she wants to go to your place for a movie has one connotation, asking her for coffee has another. Asking her how her day is conveys different intentions than texting her some innuendo stuff.

Granted I suck at hookups so I might not be the best person to ask, but the way I see it, it's all about communication. At least it's a million times better than the current top comment which is basically saying lead them on.

Sparkledork1 · 2019-01-16T05:37:07+00:00

Go find a hooker

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-01-16T08:39:32+00:00

Going date near your home Escalate with her, watch Netflix and touch body parts (there is a ladder where to start) than you got sex

muff_marauder · 2019-01-16T07:38:22+00:00

In defense of serious relationships: they can be very short and never involve love.

Do what I do. Tell girls you are looking for something serious. Find girls you have chemistry with and offer to date them to see where it goes. Sincerely commit to her for a week or a few months, then move on because it's not working out (you're getting bored).

She probably won't get super upset because the relationship was so short -- fun, reliable sex and works great.

Oh and, by the way, since your confidence will skyrocket from having a GF or near-GF, other women will notice and flock to you. Easy.

Cybralisk · 2019-01-16T10:26:03+00:00

If you are willing to drop your standards a lot and are fairly good looking then it's easy enough to get sex when you want it, getting sex with attractive girls most of the time is a lot harder though.

Just go on tinder or the dating sites and message fat/chubby girls, a lot of the time they are receptive to a netflix and chill type of thing

Title	How to get sex without a serious relationship? [22M]
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Upvotes	14
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Date	January 16, 2019 5:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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