how can i balance between being interested, and needy?

K3wp · 2019-01-26T08:46:15+00:00

Abundance. Have a hundred girls on your plate.

ThatMacGamer · 2019-01-26T11:10:21+00:00

Inviting them out automatically shows you’re interested. Let them do 70-80% of the talking and ask questions to show you’re actively interested and listening to the conversation. When it’s your turn to answer questions, give them a short and flirty/silly/mysterious answer and turn the question back onto them.

The date is about seeing whether she as a person will suit YOU, no need to constantly seek approval.

Yet do not check out the hot waitress or passer-by’s

After dates:

Texting/calling is only for setting up dates. “Hey, it’s catsandsoup, are you free Friday? Let’s get a drink at 7pm,

DO NOT contact her after that. Keep the suspense and mystery until you finally meet on for the drinks at 7pm. Say “I had fun” afterwards and don’t contact them until you want to ask them out. No other communication needed.

Hope this helps mate :)

TheWaffleMan96 · 2019-01-26T15:40:34+00:00

Stop thinking about the line.

Abundance is the best option by far.

That said, say you are already in early stages of talking to a girl.

She asks a question. Reply with a negative or a positive joke. Spike emotions. Then get back to logical conversation. This makes her interested. Then calibrate based on the girl. DOnt just talk to set up dates, this is an antiquated notion, as most of our conversations nowadays is through messages. She will just think you are weird to not actually talk to her and then expect a date (this obviously depends on the amount of time you have known her already).

Be unapologetic about being busy. Don't mention. Never mention that she doesn't respond quick, unless you are really witty about it.

And text her whenever. Lead the conversation.

Have a life you want to pursue outside of that girls, i.e. gym, hobby, other girl, work.

Get her on intstagram, don't text her. Set up cool stuff to do with friends and ask them to film you (or film yourself) the cool shit you do, so it is her that texts you.

Archangel_White_Rose · 2019-01-26T15:26:50+00:00

Imagine a homeless man walks up to you on the street asking for change, now imagine same guy only dressed in a suit and tie. Needy is the behavior you exhibit when trying to when something out of someone, usually perceived as higher value than you, trying to impress them or fulfil their expectations.

HeavyMeringue · 2019-01-26T08:59:17+00:00

Keep your contact in texts,do not answer here and there by the excuse you were busy or that you fell asleep.Call only to set dates.

wolfbee16 · 2019-01-27T00:14:44+00:00

I only text when I want to make plans. I hate texting. We talk about SO many topics that can be discussed in person. I lost so many attractive girls in my youth because i wouldn’t leave them alone. Makes me cringe but i learned. Have your own life, show you are your own person. And yes, have other girls to go to. Nothing makes a girl more attracted to you than seeing you with other girls having fun. I’ve tripled the amount of girls just by doing that. They see me as a guy now that doesn’t NEED them. I have other girls I can chill with. Putting them on a pedestal will get you nothing but heartbreak

sexypirates · 2019-01-26T17:50:58+00:00

imagine if u were being pursued. what mix would probably appeal to u. then do that

Title	how can i balance between being interested, and needy?
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Date	January 26, 2019 7:22 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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