How to tackle a shit test

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-02-12T22:34:51+00:00

The only response to a shit test is to agree and amplify.

"Dang I was expecting to watch at least 1 episode of game of thrones with you too...guess that's NOT happening :*( "

PS: her saying "we're not having sex is actually a good sign" she is thinking about sex herself and bought it up as a defense mechanism. She will probably mention sex again while you're there with her. Whatever she says simply say "ok" and then escalate, a little more slowly but keep escalating.

chesterfieldelitist · 2019-02-13T04:26:42+00:00

Look, almost every girl who is worth chasing is going to say she doesn't want to fuck immediately. The truth is, when a girl says "no hookups" she just means she's not going to meet and fuck some loser sight unseen. Most of them don't consider fucking after a date to be a "hookup" but rather as simply fucking after a date. They just need to meet you and ensure you're not a weirdo. Apply alcohol in public then retire to fuck.

And trust me, if she doesn't fuck you after laughs over wine, she probably ain't attracted to you.

CulturalDetective · 2019-02-12T23:14:57+00:00

Either: 1) indifference or, 2) agree and amplify

Keep in mind that girls only shit test guys the guys that they consider could be attractive (remember girls'attraction is less black and white than men). So shit tests mean you're on the right track.

Todd V has good videos on this.

Dilpil01 · 2019-02-13T06:22:45+00:00

Just say she's being way to forward in saying that, it wasn't even on your mind and she's already jumping to conclusions (with an emoji, jokes can be hard to tell by text). Tell her to clean up her mind a bit and you're looking forward to seeing her at coffee.

BishopDayGame · 2019-02-13T06:49:37+00:00

Do not try and bend the spoon, that's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth...there is no spoon. Then you'll see that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.

Shit tests are overrated. This type of mentality creates a me vs her thought process. It makes it feel like your going to war. Game and sales tend to have a lot of overlap. When a customer says or does something awkward, you would just smile, laugh it off, or just politely acknowledge it. You could make a joke, or just directly state that you understand. The real thing to keep in mind is how you feel. Think of outer game as the frosting, about 25%. Inner game is the cake, the 75%. If she's just stating a boundary, then respect it (even if she decides to change her mind later and wants you too escalate).

Don't worry about passing "tests". Worry about moving forward. Get her number, get her on a date(s), and get her alone in a sexual location. Make out alone, fool around, and then sex. Sometimes all of that can be in a few hours. Sometimes that can take 2 or 3 dates (if she tries to prolong past 3... I would recommend avoiding her. She either has a weird thing about sex... or she's trying to use you for free food).

Lastly: Remember to screen her. If she's doing something rude, or socially inappropriate, and she does these things consistently, then run like hell. That's the mistake we all make in the beginning. We stick around because she's hot and we feel like we just need the learning experience, etc. If she's being genuinely rude, don't waste your time. The headache will not be worth it, whether you become intimate with her or not. In the example you gave, it sounded like a common boundary women like to put up (and then quickly abandon for some reason...). Respect it and don't worry too much about it.

bemore_ · 2019-02-13T08:25:09+00:00

It's not a shit test. She's just getting the sense that you have expectations and/or creating subtle pressure. Date and a movie, valentines .. it's taking away from your experience with each other.

Tell her you're just focused on having fun together, then maybe she can make a move on you

Varsel · 2019-02-13T14:24:56+00:00

https://www.amazon.com/What-Women-Want-When-They/dp/1515234045

Title	How to tackle a shit test
Author	the_lone_deviant
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	February 12, 2019 9:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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