What to talk about on a date

theo1188 · 2019-03-06T14:46:32+00:00

So this video might be a little much.

Unless you’re trying to have a relationship like vision and the scarlet witch in Avengers, you might want to shoot for some light jokes, a few memorable events and try to have a good time.

Changing who you are, getting super serious and asking questions this deep could very easily come off as nosy, impolite, or downright creepy if it’s forced in any way.

From personal experience, the best first date is the one in which both people feel comfortable being themselves, and can enjoy a conversation that doesn’t have an underlying agenda.

WIA20XX · 2019-03-06T11:21:19+00:00

This type of thing might be too powerful to be honest.

Most of you guys aren't even aware of technical game, but things like The Cube, Three Animals, or Strawberry Fields weren't attraction routines. They were weaponized therapy/self development tools for comfort, rapport and most of all TRUST.

On the advanced pickup forums, guys used to talk about how to use emotional breakthroughs, or why 7 hours, but the problem has been that the girl gets TOO attached.

Fam, I'm just trying to spend the night, not get an apostle like Christ. Because when you realize that the girl doesn't have much to offer, but she's now in love with you - you have a problem.

Good stuff though. Guys looking for soul binding material, Google the 36 questions that lead to love.

OnlyOnceThreetimes · 2019-03-06T15:55:41+00:00

Lol this is horrible advice for a 1st date. Great advice for a 3rd.

Ericgzg · 2019-03-06T23:16:47+00:00

I think worrying about what to talk about is looking at this wrong. When you do this you are entirely worried about a bad outcome. You have assigned her all the power and arent even thinking about what your standard for her is. This is a bad place to start from. So instead you should be focusing on looking for a girl you naturally enjoy, and who naturally enjoys you, and with who you dont struggle with what to talk about on a date.

xesup2 · 2019-03-06T17:20:48+00:00

WARNING. This video and entire channel is TOXIC BLUEPILLING

Stay away from it.

They don't have credentials for his pompous and pretentious name of "school of life".

2019-03-06T15:47:24+00:00

Just listen to this old guy and "let your fingers do the talking." Carefully, duh.

ModernWolfStrategies · 2019-03-06T16:20:16+00:00

I don't agree with this for several reasons...

Most people are not prepared for these types of questions. You will either get someone who is willing to answer but then feels vulnerable and you will have to take an immediate supportive role to someone you barely know during an event that is supposed to be fun. Or you will get someone who is not willing or apprehensive about answering these questions and they will dislike the energy you bring to the table. These types of questions will only work out well with a very specific type of personality.
You will have to be willing to give genuine answers to these questions yourself and if you short change the other person, they will feel like shit.
You want the other person to associate you with positive emotions when they are on a date. This is not that. Vulnerability is not sexy.

Save this for when a positive fun relationship has already been established. If you think the person in front of you will have fun answering these types of question by all means have at it. I agree with talking about your hopes and dreams, but stuff involving vulnerability, difficult emotions, and personal loss will likely be a big turn off for most people. I'm going to just make up a number and say that I don't think 90% of women will be enamored with these questions. Unless they are a person who prides themselves on being introspective. Just my thoughts.

Aghayden · 2019-03-07T02:15:36+00:00

You know a date's going well when they're crying in public!

the_life_is_good · 2019-03-06T19:59:28+00:00

Don't take girls on dates that you are not actively sleeping with

Title	What to talk about on a date
Author	soundspoon
Upvotes	44
Comments	16
Date	March 6, 2019 9:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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