Going clubbing alone tonight, any tips?

ass_blunts · 2019-05-04T17:49:18+00:00

Fail hard, fast, and often. You'll figure it out.

gotheslayer · 2019-05-04T18:08:29+00:00

You are a strong dude for doing this. Don’t cry over any bitch. You will get over soon.

DahBuckchild · 2019-05-04T18:13:48+00:00

Focus on having a good time, they'll notice soon enough

2019-05-04T19:33:55+00:00

Is there a reason you're going to a club and not a bar/pub? I can usually strike up a conversation with someone pretty easily in a pub but I find it impossible to talk to someone in a club.

Anyway, my advice would be to talk to everyone not just the girls you're trying to pull. Finding some temporary friends for the night and having fun is a good launchpad for making a move on a girl because you can walk away at any time and go back to having fun instead of being dependent on one person to decide whether your night is going good or bad.

dailymanup · 2019-05-04T22:15:51+00:00

Check out this article for a great way to prepare for a great night out. A great night starts before you get to the club.

nag1878 · 2019-05-04T20:39:50+00:00

How common/creepy is it to club alone? Does it send a vibe that you don't have friends?

syn1us · 2019-05-04T18:39:02+00:00

I learned game by going out alone. Befriend guys before going for the girls and have some fun with them.

icantdrive · 2019-05-04T21:33:05+00:00

“Pretty dead from the inside” you’ll do well.

starpower1008765 · 2019-05-05T07:58:18+00:00

Hey man people are leaving some great comments with really good advice but im seeing a lack of concern for your inner game or your emotional condition.

I think its really important to not use things like getting laid as a source of validation and distraction from your pain, because you become dependent on it then your life if one big hassle.

I would say take some time to be ok with being alone/ single. There is a season for everything and a reason for everything. i would also recommend reading some eckhart tolle or youtube him taking about relationships and also he’s a few affirmations that might come in handy.

“I as i am are whole, complete and perfect. I don’t need anything from anyone.”
“No condition or circumstance will give me permanent peace and happiness and so i surrender trying to control conditions and circumstances and relax into the natural flow of life.”
“If a train doesn’t stop at my station then it wasn’t my train, there is a better train going to a more preferred destination on its way. I let come what comes and go what goes.”
“When i am in a good feeling place good things happen, so i don’t use things to feel good, i feel good then act on what i am inspired too.”
“My Inner emotional experience in not dependant on outside circumstances. I don’t need reasons, experiences or knowledge to feel good i can choose to regardless.”

ApprenticeOfTheGame · 2019-05-04T19:23:47+00:00

Wrote notes on this Todd V video on the topic, might help: https://reddit.app.link/tpvYDTviqW

zbf · 2019-05-05T00:12:34+00:00

Dance. Even if you can't dance, DANCE. Have fun!

bugxter · 2019-05-05T00:38:19+00:00

Some of my best nights have been when going solo, it's a lot of fun and the sense of freedom you get is liberating.

Have fun.

buttfacenosehead · 2019-05-04T22:58:28+00:00

Do a little dance...

Double_Lobster · 2019-05-04T23:06:52+00:00

smile

Icy_Owl1251 · 2022-02-27T00:39:43+00:00

Title	Going clubbing alone tonight, any tips?
Author	throbaso
Upvotes	54
Comments	29
Date	May 4, 2019 5:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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