21M virgin, how can an average guy hookup?

WeirdSmartKid · 2019-07-18T10:31:05+00:00

I don’t have a very attractive face but I’m fit and 6”, I guess it’s relevant. What has considtently at least gotten me good conversations, sexual dances and one kiss with hot/very hot girls (in two nights of clubbing alone) is to just be vulnerable and fun. Lose your ego. The most important thing is your energy. Some or a lot of people are gonna think you’re weird. That is ok, and it doesn’t even necessarily mean they won’t be attracted to you, as long as you have good energy.

I would recommend either just approaching a group of girls dancing, do some silly move you find funny and smile/laugh at yourself, offer your hand, if a girl takes it (which they often will if you have good energy), spin them around. Now you’re in, and if they seem into it, you can escalate from there.

I’m not as good at starting conversations, but I would recommend just commenting on something in the situation, prefereably something funny, then just offering your hand and asking for her name.

kalz44 · 2019-07-18T13:31:58+00:00

I’d say keep shooting your shot. At the club, on campus and everywhere else. Also take a look at your self esteem and your overall happiness without women. That’s probably holding you back as much as anything.

bournit · 2019-07-18T14:13:25+00:00

Daygame.

tes_befil · 2019-07-18T13:28:21+00:00

I was the same as you 0 hook ups then I took it upon myself to get tinder and improve myself until I started fucking. Get good pictures, I got crazy I made my own scene and made it look like I was doing crazy shit at a party or playing guitar in front of people with a timed camera although I was always alone. But it worked fantastically, then find a simple but effective bio and if you're tall put it in there. When it comes to messaging girls if your unsure just say something funny, once you're comfortable say whatever YOU find funny or sexy or both which is best. Once you got a flow of conversion going hint at sexual shit, like saying "god it's so warm out today, I'm so exhausted and sweaty and not in the good way" she'll either act dumb or be like we can fix that ;) either way you got the green light go, then just say what you wanna do to her or my favourite "I know exactly what I'd do to you" she will get curious and ask and then you can say whatever hot ass shit you want I like to get dirty as fuck after that.

EDIT: my simple but effective bio was this "6ft1. Ill kiss you on our first date" that's it, and it worked well

revinah · 2019-07-18T08:23:33+00:00

Okay, first question: how do you approach people you meet when you're clubbing or when you're scrolling through dating sites?

2019-07-18T15:08:21+00:00

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Title	21M virgin, how can an average guy hookup?
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Date	July 18, 2019 8:15 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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