If I go up too a girl and open direct (hey you're cute, what's your name) and she tells me she's not interested and walks away fast, or if I open indirect and she is just giving me NOTHING and clearly wants me to go away, I can kind of accept it. I just assume either i'm WAY not her physical type, or maybe she's having a bad day or something going on
What I hate are the sets where you are left wondering what else you could have done/said.
Like, the girl was polite, spoke back etc, but it just felt impossible to advance as you never sense any sexual interest. Like, it just feels obvious that she's not 'into you' in that way, and so telling her you like her or trying to escalate etc would just be creepy.
And in these interactions, it just seems impossible to make it kind of 'flirty' (whereas other interactions seem to lend themselves to 'flirtyness' and it tends to go better)
I opened a girl last night using more old school style game due to the environment- indirect opener, tease. Every time she doesn't show interest/fails to comply, I give her an 'indicator of DISinterest' in return and tell stories and try to show value etc, but i could never get anywhere because I was never getting attraction from her. Like she was just a polite girl and so didn't tell me to go away, but I know for near CERTAIN that she wasn't attracted. In the end I ran out of things to say and she left
Do you tend to try to escalate either way in them sorts of sets where you feel a clear lack of attraction? (if so, how?)
Also, I sometimes feel like I need a huge list of lines for each technique so that i've always got something to say in terms of 'game'
SO I need like 20 'teases', 20 'disqualifying lines', 20 'DHV stories', 20 'IOD lines' etc etc
Do you guys have this? YOu must have memories like the rainman!
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