How to ask for nudes?

AscendedAlpha · 2019-08-27T11:28:21+00:00

Dude, girls send you nudes out of their own free will.

ANY other way of receiving them, especially coersing it out of her is a VERY bad idea because you practically guarantee that you won't be getting any.

The most surefire way I've received nudes before are two points:

It's a girl I'm dating and we've already taken videos or photos of us having sex, and she's fine with it or even like it. Then you stand a very good chance that she will send you a lil' surprize one day, because that barrier has already been broken.
The girl are desperate for your attention and send it before or shortly after hooking up with you. This is much less common and you really had to be attractive when first meeting her, but it does happen.

For the love of all that is good and manly, don't EVER ask for nudes! It's a massive loss of power!

RednaxB · 2019-08-27T11:31:41+00:00

You don't ask for nudes.

DontAskIfImWorking · 2019-08-27T12:35:11+00:00

You get them by not asking. Regardless of the circumstances and the woman, it's best to let her decide that. If you're doing everything right, she'll want to send them, and you won't even have to ask.

destruktoooor · 2019-08-27T12:39:16+00:00

Why do you need nudes in the first place?

pnadlerlaw · 2019-08-27T14:09:58+00:00

I’ve never asked for nudes in my life.

One girl I was seeing created 3-4 videos for me where she was doing “something,” idk what you would call it. Strip teasing or contorting herself on the bed and trying to look sexy. I never even bothered to look through all of the videos she sent me or play them in full or more than once. But I appreciated the gesture.

When we broke up, she asked me to delete them, and I did. Why? Because I’m thinking about you assholes out there who ruin these modern expressions of female on male affection with revenge porn and stupid bullshit like that. You’re welcome.

The other time it happened was with my wife. She would send me pictures of herself modeling different shoes and skirts, then underwear, then nudes. And I’m not very nasty in that sense. So, I just told her, “You look beautiful, so don’t take what I’m going to say the wrong way. But you don’t have to do that. I prefer you leaving something to the imagination.” She still continued to send me pictures modeling out underwear and shoes for me in different poses.

I used to take pictures of her on the bed. We went on Chatroulette a few times and put on shows for whoever was on the other end.

I think the act or gesture is a symbol of voluntary submission and surrender from the female to the male (which is why dick pics always confused me as a gesture from men to woman). But nudes are not a “compliance test.” “Send me nudes” or even “I’d love to see ... blah blah blah” should never be something that comes out of your mouth or something you text to a girl.

If she does it only because you asked, then it’s meaningless.

Preteuss · 2019-08-27T21:02:31+00:00

You don't, in fact its better this way, there's a high chance of her regretting sending you nudes and you lose the game.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-08-27T21:19:39+00:00

If you have to ask...she isnt into you 🤷‍♀️. And this is coming from a girl!

smoothmax · 2019-08-27T13:59:28+00:00

If she sends nudes on her own, that's ok.

If she asks for your pic, answer:

"Say please"

2019-08-27T22:58:01+00:00

r/send_nudes

ntipz011 · 2019-08-28T09:28:39+00:00

You don't ask for nudes.

You can tease that you'd like to see some (in a smart calibrated way).

Depending on how the conversation flows. If she says she's right out of the shower you can text "let me see" but that's as close as directly asking for nudes you'll ever get.

WFoster88 · 2019-08-27T13:21:32+00:00

In my experience if a girl wants to send nudes, she just will. And if she doesn't offer them herself, then she's not into it. Also, most of the nudes I have, I took myself. I just smile at her, pull out my phone camera, point it at her and if she starts posing... it's on.

dirtysoupboy · 2019-08-27T11:12:53+00:00

Usually u gotta give in order to receive, but it all depends on the girl though

Title	How to ask for nudes?
Author	bidex6
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Date	August 27, 2019 10:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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