I was in a really bad place for most of my time in uni so I worked on all areas of my life. Over my time in uni i got in good shape, got 3 engineering internships, better grades, picked up jujitsu, Latin dance and improv as hobbies and became overall more confident and driven. I also beat my crippling agoraphobia and social anxiety which was a huge achievement in itself because I didnt leave my room for most of 2016.
But despite self improvement I avoided the connecting with women aspect of it. I avoided approaching women and trying to connect with women. I always told myself "I'll work on myself first. That's more important". I used that as a way to excuse my fear. So now I'm here telling myself "what the fuck have I done. I squandered the wonderful opportunity I had surrounded by women. If I failed in uni I'll definitely fail outside uni."
Now I'm afraid it's too late. I'm in my final year. All my friends have graduated and I dont have anyone to hang out with and go do things where I can approach women. I did approach 2 girls over the past month but they both rejected me and now I'm in a pretty tight spot.
I feel pretty alone and uncertain about what the future holds. If I failed in uni which is the most abundant easy playing ground I cant believe how badly I'll fail in real life.
I just needed some help dealing with this mentally. I keep dwelling on this and It's been keeping me down and depressed and I dont know what to do. Any comments would be appreciated.
TL:DR= Worked on myself for most of my time in uni but didnt approach in uni. Now have severe regrets and not able to deal with the depression knowing I have very little time and oppurtunities left to do anything about my situation. Need help dealing with this.
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