Don't ask for permission, make suggestions instead

coherent_shitposter · 2019-09-20T22:53:49+00:00

This is fine when you're starting out because generally guys are too timid rather than too bold but as you develop your seduction skills you'll find that there's nothing wrong with asking a girl if she's free on a certain day. If she's into you and the rest of your game is on point, she won't refuse a date just because you asked instead of suggesting.

chuckvsthelife · 2019-09-20T23:57:26+00:00

The reason why I'm addressing this is because women all prefer dominant guys who can make decisions for them.

I don't agree. I think this is true for many if not most women around certain subjects, but it is not true of all women. Similarly in BDSM most doms are men.... but not all.

That said even with those women suggestions are probably better. It isn't about being dominant, it's about being confident. A question to ask a question is meek, just say what you want. Be polite but assertive and confident.

Mak0wski · 2019-09-21T11:23:46+00:00

Usually when i suggest to hang out it just ends up with something like this

"Hey let's hang out sometime"

"Yeah totally! would be fun"

And then end of that, and then we never hang out. This is not just while trying to date women also happens with friends

lunarian07 · 2019-09-20T21:30:43+00:00

Defiantly agree. I had this guy ask me out and he was so indirect about it, kinda turned me off. Whereas if he said what your post suggests I’d be more keen. Language is key.

Kylemoa1 · 2019-09-21T05:09:11+00:00

It's always good to go back to the basics and get reminders of how something small like this can make a difference in an interaction.

anon3451 · 2019-09-21T01:08:21+00:00

Most girls prefer dominant men* but dominant women do exist 🤣

Why downvote lol? They do... submissive men exist too. But majority of men/ women are dom/ sub. At least 80-90%

nasskt · 2019-09-21T06:08:43+00:00

I would ask they what theyre doing the next couple days...if it was something boring I'd go "nah youre going out with me". Worked very well :)

Luis_McLovin · 2019-09-21T10:38:31+00:00

Actually I still find this rather weak. I use demands, “give me your number”.

drinkin_ur_squirt · 2019-09-21T13:54:50+00:00

The complexity to have to even make yourself speak in a manner this way just to get a date with a woman is ridiculous. Why do men have to do everything to make anything happen? Why can’t a woman be simple. It’s not hard to be simple.

Succubus_Sin · 2019-09-21T13:31:52+00:00

As a woman.

This would get you pepper sprayed if you came at me like that in these times.

Your approach is awful.

Title	Don't ask for permission, make suggestions instead
Author	ngyuhnang
Upvotes	352
Comments	38
Date	September 20, 2019 7:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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