Girl refused to kiss me, now...?

stevenmarkryan · 2019-10-11T21:51:17+00:00

Dude, stop wasting your time. If she liked you, she would have kissed you.

The only other time this happens is with:

Highly-structured (massive pain-in-the-ass), control-freak, crazy women who cage their emotions in arbitrary rules to make them feel like they have some control in their lives... always a huge red flag or
When you're Plan B - she's in an exclusive relationship, shopping around for an upgrade and telling herself it's not cheating

In all cases, don't waste your time.

p.s Lived in Peru in 2018 and earlier this year.

smoothmax · 2019-10-11T22:22:07+00:00

Stuff happens and sometimes doesn't happen. Lots of weird things happen on dates. Girls think they're completely rational but good luck figuring out what they think they're doing.

Keep on asking girls out. In the meantime check out Rapid Escalation by Liam Mcrae. Possibly there are a couple of things you could do to spark a physical relationship. In general you want to be leading her and pushing things a little bit ... in a socially aceptable way. Like, starting with hand holding etc.

2019-10-12T00:58:25+00:00

She could be a Virgin. No joke, I went on 4 dates with a girl who wouldn’t let me kiss her. Even though on text she hinted that I should be bold and make a move on her...I leaned in to kiss her when we were talking on a bench by the river one night and she leaned away. Then at the end of our date she had the audacity to ask me for a fucking kiss.

Fuck. outta. here.

judahman8 · 2019-10-12T02:17:15+00:00

Well my friend this is a classic framing problem that comes from asking girls out on dates. When you ask a girl on a date it shows an extreme amount of interest. This is why I never go on dates with girls I'm not already sleeping with. The entire point of seduction is to get them chasing you. If you asked her on a date then the entire event is framed as you chasing her. You can do stuff to off set it but why work from behind for no reason.

The goal isn't to go on a fantastic date, it's usually to get laid and get to know someone. Next time invite her to do something that you are going to do with or without her. A date relies on her, hanging out with friends and bowling doesn't. Then kino escalate with her the whole time as usual. When you have her ready for the kiss, this time ask her if she wants to kiss you. If she says no, say I didn't say you could, you just had that look in your eyes. If she says anything besides yes then say let's find out.

If she rejects you then it's still no big deal. Just hangout with her of and when you want and try again or don't. It's only a big deal if you keep taking the bitch on dates. If not she's just an extra bonus girl to practice your game on and hangout with. You can always use her to pick up hotter girls too.

GeeseCTM · 2019-10-11T21:35:03+00:00

So, getting denied a kiss is no big deal.

I am too lazy to explain it in here now but I go into detail about this in my talk on getting sexual located below.

It's an hour and I'm not selling anything other than maybe put in your email.

But let's just say I've been denied a kiss by girls I don't know how many times and still ended up eventually kissing them AND closing the deal sexually.

It's not that you're getting denied that kiss. It's that you're not Escalating properly.

Check this out. I can PROMISE it will help.

drdavidbanner20 · 2019-10-11T20:23:35+00:00

I've only had this happen to me a handful of times, but I always end things after a girl refuses a kiss. The reason is because I don't view a kiss as anything special, so if she's not ready to kiss me, then a) she's really NOT into me and I'm wasting my time or b) she's VERY conservative, which won't work with my personality and desires.

If she's a cool girl, keep her as a friend. But I would move my romantic attention to someone who wants the same things you want.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-10-11T19:47:15+00:00

She doesnt OWE you a kiss...and maybe she is moving slowly and isnt ready for that. Or maybe she thinks of you as a friend...who knows. If it concerns you that much, talk to HER - dont ask a Reddit sub.

Title	Girl refused to kiss me, now...?
Author	FieldReports13
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Comments	14
Date	October 11, 2019 7:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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