In here I will cover all the basic dating advice for begginers, since I find alot of similarity between people here and I repeat myself alot. To all of you I am an amateru dating coach. If any of you need indepth advice and mentoring DM me. Please upvote this post so people can see it.
1) Step outside of your little comfot bubble Guys you have to leave that comfort zone and go outside, approach girls, talk to them and be uncomfortable. Over time talking to girls becomes natural and comfortable.
2)Dont wait for the "right time" to escalate That "right time" to make a move is never going to come, you need to escalate before its too late. I see alot of guys fail cuz they didnt escalate.
3)Show intent from the start When talking to girls make sure you show your intent, and your intent is to be a potential mate. What I mean by this is you need to talk to her like a lover not like a friend. This is why people get friendzoned so frequently.
4)Demand respect Dont let any girl disrespect you as this will result in you becoming a door mat. She will just walk over you. Whenever she does something disrespectful dont be scared to call her out on her behaviour.
5)Dont be afraid to flirt, touch her Begin very gently and get her comfortable, then when shes comfortable, amplify. If shes not ready for that stage yet dont give up but give it some more time and try again.
6)Friendzone If you get friendzoned, tell her that your intemt was not to be a friend and if she changes her mind that she should contact you. Then break contact and move on.
7)Beware of shittests This is a wide topic but I will try to shorten it. Shittests are basically a way for the woman to filter ou the betas. Being genuenly confident jn yourself you can pass most of these. Just laugh them off like its no big deal.
8)Send mixed signals One minute show interest only to be mildly interested the second. Sometimes reply with short sometimes with long messages and so on you get what I mean. Also phisically push her away gently only to hug her a second after. Will make her go crazy.
9)Give her time to think about you You need to be mysterious, dont reveal your cards at the start as she will later find you boring. Alot of guys talk their way out of a relationship simply by talking too much to the girl. Then she just gets bored. Dont text her so much for fuck sakes.
10)Dont put her on a pedestal/dont be needy Dont agree with something that you dont agree with because of her. Dont place her status higher than yours, have it equal. Dont be her little errand boy and do everything for her.
11)Dont be scared to rock the boat If you dont like something that shes doing or says something that you dont like or you just have separate opinions, dont be afraid to confornt her and call her out on something
This will be it but if you guys want more tell me in the comments. PLEASE UPVOTE SO OTHER PEOPLE CAN SEE THE POST
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