How can I build attraction without a date?

TheHalfMonty · 2019-10-26T20:45:35+00:00

Why no date? We won't be able to offer advice unless we have context

Baltazartm · 2019-10-26T20:53:23+00:00

The girl likes me but she hates direct approaches, she likes things to look like they happen naturally

kalz44 · 2019-10-26T21:01:11+00:00

You can still lead any interaction you two are on and you can make romantic advances.

FrankyCastiglione · 2019-10-27T00:13:57+00:00

Talk to her about her.

greatlifeahead · 2019-10-27T06:22:00+00:00

She is not interested enough if she doesn't want to go out on a date. Think about it. If a guy of her dreams would meet her what would happen? She would go out with him on a heartbeat. Try to focus on creating more interest for now and try asking her out later.

NewtypeJ · 2019-10-26T23:40:58+00:00

Direct approaches are pretty natural lol. On a more serious note, it sounds like she wants a Disney Channel/Hallmark/Nicholas Sparks romance to form out of you two spending time together. If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my 25 years of existence, and 9 years of really dating/having sex with women, pussy isn’t worth waiting for. Trying to imitate some fake romance isn’t going to end well for either party for reasons that should be more obvious. I can think of a girl I know who was the same way. I approached her with a direct approach, deframed my competition, and won her over in the end. I, for lack of a better word, courted her because she told me that she wanted to know me for longer before we started dating. So we became friends, I know she liked me and I, in some way, liked her. I realized that in the end, she was happy and I wasn’t so I started prioritizing other girls. She became jealous and I basically asked her out again, she said “yes” completely going against her initial outlook. Point is, don’t wait for her. Pursue other women and if she comes around later, then so be it.

Title	How can I build attraction without a date?
Author	Baltazartm
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	October 26, 2019 8:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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