Is there some secret code I don't know about...?

grrinchas · 2019-11-12T04:25:29+00:00

Man you can’t. All this “how to talk with women” stuff you should know by now. If you think that you can just read a book then apply what u learn without being creepy or awkward you will see that it does not work. To be good with women you have to find the thin line of being sexual without going overboard. That’s it. Sounds simple but it is not. Because there are so many variables to consider:

Women type - physical or emotional. And everything between.
Her state of mind - sober or drunk, sad or happy etc
Time of the day - morning, lunch, evening, night.
Social context - pub, bar, street, shop, tube etc.
Is she alone or not.
Who she is with (friends, colleagues, parents etc)

And many more

You have to take consideration every variable and according to them change your approach. Change your body language, adapt your happiness, flirtness, the words you use, how you say it, etc. What works in one context won’t work in another. For example

Yesterday I saw two physical type girls, they were wearing tight jeans, were loud, and were smoking on a street. I approached and sad to one, “love your jeans, looks very tight” of course I came across as a douche, mainly cause they were two.

The same day I approached similar type of a girl on a street which was alone and she asked in rude tone “what do you want”, I looked at her, then to her ass and sad “I want your ass” in low, demanding voice. Passed more tests and eventually I got instant date with her.

So I acted almost the same way in different context and in one I appeared like a creep and another as a sexual man.

My point is that you have to keep edging until you will find that thin line for different situations. Good luck.

FrankyCastiglione · 2019-11-11T16:20:49+00:00

Read The Mystery Method.

There's also great content from Todd V on YouTube relating to texting and engaging women verbally/emotionally.

smoothmax · 2019-11-11T20:05:48+00:00

Mystery Method has been updated, the revised edition is called Revelation by Venusian Arts. The more weird aspects of MM have been put in context.

But don't depend on just one book or method, check out a variety of authors and coaches and look for a style that will work for you.

omega_constant · 2019-11-12T03:42:14+00:00

1) Never wing with somebody who's game is next level to yours. You need to ratio match with somebody who's in a similar confidence bracket as yourself.

2) Remember, you're not trying to "get laid", you're trying to improve yourself, as a man. Building self-confidence is part of self-improvement and it pays dividends in all areas of life, including romance. But if you're just focused on "getting laid", you won't build real self-confidence and that will show you up every time you find yourself standing -- deer-in-the-headlights -- in front of that hot girl that you'd like to ask on a date. Kinda funny how life has aligned the incentives so that the best way to get what you want is to do what really needs to be done in order to improve yourself.

Title	Is there some secret code I don't know about...?
Author	Marcusube
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	November 11, 2019 4:15 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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