"You can have my number only as friends"

blatantlybanal · 2019-11-23T18:02:34+00:00

She playing hard to get or teasing you

Maybe she was flirting for fun

PiperBigBell · 2019-11-23T18:58:53+00:00

Ignore it. Flirt as usual. Ask her the fuck out. If she plays hard to get over text and/or on the phone, you next her.

MrQualtrough · 2019-11-23T19:12:39+00:00

Ignore the comment. And ignore PUA analysis. "Shit testing" lol, no this is normal human behaviour and could happen for an array of reasons. Some girls really don't want to feel sl*tty so pretend to be "oh so totally against" hooking up or whatever. Let them keep their self image, just WhatsApp her and pretend it never happened.

ActuallyAMammal · 2019-11-24T00:02:41+00:00

“I was here thinking we’re gonna marry. Guess we’ll be one of those no-phone couples”

billgrimes5 · 2019-11-24T04:31:42+00:00

I would respond with taking hold of the frame. For instance, saying something like “oh no no no no no no, I do the friendzoning.” And make a joke out of it but keep the status.

My frame has always been I don’t get friend-zoned I decide whether or not I friend-zone someone.

There has been an instance where I openly told a girl who insinuated that, don’t insult me. We then got into a convo about how that’s an insult. And I explained it means you are saying my replication value is low, fuck you! And she laughed and was like “that’s not what I meant.” So I turned it into cocky comedy and made clear I’ve got the status. And needless to say escalated that into developing attraction and ultimately we got into a successful sexual relationship.

Atriev · 2019-11-23T18:59:23+00:00

I don’t care. If the girl and I are “hanging out as friends” for a couple of hours together, we will “accidentally” make out, “accidentally” keep going, and “accidentally” have sex.

I could care less what the premise of any situation is. If you’re a high value male and this girl is alone with you and is at least mildly attracted to you, you can make good things happen.

I never ask girls on dates. I ask them to hang out with me. I don’t tell girls that my house is clean and that I plan to pull her there. I only tell her to meet me for dinner. The rest of the stuff happens.

Then on the second date, I can just pull them straight to my place for take-out dinner and Netflix.

anonymous478569 · 2019-11-23T23:56:35+00:00

This subreddit has defined this to be a "shit-test," but think rationally, every relationship from long-term to friends w benefits all start from friendships.

grrinchas · 2019-11-24T03:45:27+00:00

Can you be just a friend with someone you find attractive? I know I can’t.

For girls being a friend with someone they find attractive is literally impossible.

Just ignore and spark more attraction.

pepinopocho · 2019-11-25T00:36:59+00:00

UzerMad · 2019-11-23T18:10:12+00:00

answer: impossible, I am attracted to you

Title	"You can have my number only as friends"
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	20
Date	November 23, 2019 6:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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